my boyfriend is really so close to me these days and so sweet, i think he'll kill himself if i go away from him but i found someone better. should i break up w/ him???
2006-09-08 05:31:40 · 23 answers · asked by jnlb_gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up, if you're not happy. Both persons deserve happiness in a relationship.
2006-09-08 05:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are honest with him and don't try to hide it, he should be ok. Granted, I don't know him personally, so I can't say for sure that he won't do something stupid (like hurt himself) But I had dated guys in the past who were the same way. When I was honest with them and told them right out that I had found someone else that made me happier, then they understood. They asked what they did wrong, but they understood. most of them also askedf what they could do better for future g/f's As long as you are honest, you both should be fine.
2006-09-08 12:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by Genny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up is always hard.... It will hurt for the next few months and you might eventually find him calling you or bothering you for the next few months on why you wanted a break up..... But trust me, it will eventually cease....
Its better to break up now then to wait longer and the hurt will be more painful.....
At the end of the day, you will need to fight for your own happiness and realise what u want in the relationship.. No point staying in the relationship if its making u miserable... Trust me after a few months he will eventually learn to accept the fact.... Gd luck!!!
2006-09-08 12:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by chocolatevanilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would doubt he would kill himself if your not happy move on with your life
Im sure he will find someone else
If you feel this isnt the person for you move on its hard we dont want to hurt people close to us.
Talk to him dont break up by sending an SMS
tell him how you feel im sure he will understand.
2006-09-08 12:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by irishjuddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking, if the someone else is better there is no question what to do. If you stayed with present b/f he would get to know, you would be resentful and it will be much worse for both of you and you will have lost the better someone else in the meantime!
2006-09-08 13:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Nick B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you call better. Is it just a case of the grass being greener, or is your b/f's clinginess the issue? You need to think about breaking up with somebody nice. They don't come along very often.
2006-09-08 12:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't love him. You must break up with him as soon as you can. If he ends his life, that's his decsion but I very much doubt that he will. No one ever dies of a broken heart but some people kill themselves before they have had time to heal.
2006-09-08 12:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should if you are not happy with him, there is no point in making you both feel unhappy is there?
i dont think he will go to such lenghts as to kill hiomself but if he is that close then it will hurt him, that is the price we pay for falling love, he will get over it eventually.
2006-09-08 12:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by welshwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it your only young once w asted 6 years with some1 a thot a wanted to find out a didnt was such a waste of ma life
2006-09-08 16:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by scots_shylad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you dont want to be with him and that you have found someone else. Dont lie or make excuses. It will hurt him more if he finds out later on.
2006-09-08 17:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋