Women love the so-called "bad boys" -- men who are needy and insecure, but overcompensate by being loud, abrasive, and attention seeking.
On the other hand, women ignore men who are healthy, secure, intelligent, and stand up for themselves.
2006-09-08 05:28:30 · 10 answers · asked by mike_answ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know where you live but I definitely wouldn't go for the first set...i'd for for the healthy, secure intelligent and stand up men hands down..i hate loud obnoxious men.
2006-09-08 05:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To put ALL women in to this category is a stereotype. The women who choose the bad boys probably feel some urge, whether its conscious or not, to want to make the guy a better person and feel that loving him might just help doing that. As a woman gets older (generally) she feels more at peace with herself and will most likely go with the second type of male you described. Most women who are ready for a stable relationship will pick the more stable of the two types of men.
2006-09-08 12:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause women use corporal language as a quick method to pick guys. So if you are intelligent and harworker but you act as a loser, you re rejected, probably cause you have a high pitch tone of voice, or you dont stand straight or you act like a wuss.
Its nature. Females look for the alpha male, the leader, the macho, the one with the strongest genes.
Somehow, thats the way girls are shallow.
Men are also shallow. We look for girls with the best body/ hair/ skin / hips, cause we are looking for the healthiest woman to have our kids. In short words, someone u would like to f**k.
Instinct is stronger that what you think. Act like a bad boy in front of girls and they ll throw themselves at you.
2006-09-08 12:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're wrong. Healthy guys, who are secue, intelligent and can stand up for themselves are obviously confident in themselves. And that is one of the main reasons why women go for bad boys, they're confidence and (a sense of adventure i guess).
Anyway, guys who are insecure and needy are usually the one's girls tend to avoid.
2006-09-08 12:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Joe_Floggs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ar truly a healthy, secure man then you will attract a healthy, secure woman. If you are a "bad boy' you will attract a "bad girl." By the way women CAN tell the difference.
2006-09-08 12:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Cas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women are superficial. But the intelligent ones know a good man when they see him.
2006-09-08 12:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by Johannu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't and i know what i want and need in a man some women i guess just love men that way
2006-09-08 12:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are the same way-- and not all women are like that so don't classify the rest of us with the morons of the world
2006-09-08 12:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell me....how can we tell the difference? There are a lot of jerks who fake confidence pretty well.
2006-09-08 12:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is kind of true girls do like wnnabe bad boys but that really doesnt matter
2006-09-08 12:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by cat eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋