2006-09-08 05:28:04 · 17 answers · asked by mallukutti 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There should never be a conflict. The people that care for us most, and want what is best for us, come in many relationships. What is best for you will come from all of these relationships.
2006-09-08 05:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by jmmevolve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Always listen to and respect yourself first. Then parents are second. They might seem that they are telling you the wrong thing but believe me they kinda know what they are talking about Another thing is boyfriends tend to tell you things that are not neccesarily good decisons. Parents tell you things that are good for you because they don't want to see you hurt. They are the ones who have your best interest at hand. Parents will always be there in the long run a boyfriend comes and goes. Maybe I am just biased because I am a parent.
2006-09-08 05:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by rosiejac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all depends on how old are you? If you are living with your parents and they are not being unreasonable, you should always listen to your parents. They have your best interest at heart. This boyfriend should respect your parents wishes for you. I know I use to hate my parents telling me what to do, but I loved them and respected them because they were older and wiser and never tried to misguide me. I don't know what your situation is but I can tell you that had I listened to my parents alot more than what I did, it would have saved me tons of valuable time and from lots of mistakes and some very cold hard knocks that life has thrown me. Utimately the decision is yours, to learn you got to do what you feel is best. Just don't be upset with them for trying to give you a good life and wanting the very best out of life for you.
2006-09-08 05:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by tfairymh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it have to be one choice or the other? If a PERSON (not just a girl) has chosen his romantic interest with care, he/she will be able to respect both his/her parents and the significant other. A boyfriend/girlfriend should not try to drive a wedge between his/her significant other and the parents.
Along the same line, respect is earned. However, the Bible commands ALL children, young or old, to HONOR his/her parents. (Ephesians 6:2-3) Parents are called not to anger their children, but instead bring them up with biblical training and instruction. (Ephesians 6:4)
2006-09-08 05:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by moreta1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are being particularly tolerant. 14 is basically too youthful for a 17. He turns 18 and you're detention center bait. All teen boys choose the comparable difficulty. So hear on your parents. in any different case next 3 hundred and sixty 5 days you would be asking questions interior the being pregnant class
2016-12-18 06:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the age of the girl. If she is out of her teens she should be LISTENING TO HERSELF AND HER OWN MORALS! If she is younger than that, her parents probably have the best advice and are looking out for her best interests. Any relationship where the BF and GF are younger than 20, its just about the sex and the guy will do what he can to get laid.
Listen to your parents, if you have to then get your BF's opinion as well, but judge both sets of advice and pick out what works with your own morals.
if you have to ask the question here, I would say that you're probably young and should listen to your parent's advice. They raised you and don't want to see you get hurt and also want to see you succeed and be the best you can be!
Good Luck!
2006-09-08 05:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by rrhiannon99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents should be listened to and respected more than the boyfriend. (Unless there is some type of abuse in the parent's home) In most cases the parents want what is best for the girl. They are older and wiser.
2006-09-08 05:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by tweetymay 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What ever age and whatever gender. All children (or teens or adults) should listen to their parents. as they have brought them up and made sure that they would always be safe and never hurt by anything and a boyfriend may just be odd, like some boys are!
2006-09-08 05:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by A.Prinz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Parents always want the best for their children, so a girl should listen to their advice. A boyfriend's advice is not always the best advice for the girl, unfortunatelly.
2006-09-08 05:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the parents are drunks or drug addicts, you should respect them first. They made you and raised you. When the boyfriend is gone, they will still be there and no matter what you do, they will ALWAYS love you!
2006-09-08 07:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by tracey e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋