2006-09-08 05:27:07 · 14 answers · asked by baglady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is hard for some people as it requires people to open up their heart completely. Some people would rather save the "I love you" for when it is real and sincere. Some say it just for the sake of saying it, but others like to hold on to those specials words for when the time is right.
And if they find it hard it is because they are maybe scared to love and be loved.
2006-09-08 05:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depend on the person. There are alot of people that has been in relationships that were really hurt emotionally. This causes them to be more withdrawn and/or put this wall up. This was my case. It took me a hell of a long time to tell someone I loved them because of the fear of being hurt again.
2006-09-08 05:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by LuvAll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because it's such a big deal especially if your in a relationship and you want to say it to your partner. I think people are afraid to say it because it means you have reached a milestone in your relationship and it leads to commitment; alot of people don't like committing or are afraid of it. Others may be afraid to say I love you because they don't know if their partner feels the same way and if they say it first the other person may not say it back...
2006-09-08 05:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by YD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its hard, they just want to make sure it's true. I wouldn't want to say I love you and then a few months later feel differently.
2006-09-08 05:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people were ridiculed,when they were young,when they showed their feeling and so as they grow up,they find it difficult to express them as they have suppressed them for so long.
2006-09-08 05:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by kareen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a commitment which one avoids as long as possible.
2006-09-08 05:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you use the words you are exposing yourself emotionally. Rejection can be very painful.
2006-09-08 05:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO it is because they are not sure they do. Most people do not say it if they don't know.
2006-09-08 05:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I htink it has to do with the way they were brought up... or things from their past.
2006-09-08 05:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by jms_ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes they feel they won't get the response they want 2 hear.
2006-09-08 05:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋