2006-09-08 05:25:28 · 24 answers · asked by melanie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys won't notice. If your hymen is intact it will bleed and cause you discomfort the first time you have sex.
Always make sure your partner uses a condom if you don't want to get pregnant. The saying "you can't get pregnant on your first time" is a myth.
2006-09-08 05:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dictionary defines a virgin as not having been penetrated by the male organ. There is a big difference between being a virgin and having an intact hymen. The breaking of the hymen is often done before the a women's "first time" by fingers or toys or a women's first gynecological examination. Sometimes when done delicately the breaking of the hymen is unnoticeable. A guy can not tell if you are a virgin by simply looking for blood. To tell you the truth there is no sure way to tell if a girl is a virgin unless you do an examination. However experience is a great indicator of whether or not a girl has had much sex, or knows her body. Virgins and the less experienced are often awkward and stiff, not as comfortable in their own bodies as girls who have had sex before or masturbate frequently. My suggestion to virgins is to masturbate until they are comfortable with their own bodies and until they know more what they are interested in. If they do not then their first time is likely to be overwhelming with awkward sensations, pain and embarrassment.
2006-09-08 05:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters you tell him. Do not be ashamed of your virginity, it is a part of being and becoming a woman.
Secondly, within the female vagina there is thin membrane known as the hymin (sp). When a woman has intercourse for the first time the hymin is broken, thus some of the pain and bleeding for a woman if it is her first time.
Some women break their hymin early on though, from tampons, masterbation, fingering, etc. This can help relax a girls first sexal intercourse experience. However, the hymin being broken will not eleviate the pain. Because a woman is tight, it is very important that she is well lubricated and turned on before the insertion of the penis. This can be achieve by buying lube, or making sure there is a good hour of foreplay before insertion.
I hope this helps and answers your question.
Gigi
2006-09-08 05:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally experienced guys will know whether your a virgin or not.
2006-09-08 05:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by yulia_jovovich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when your a virgin you have a thin layer of skin surrounding the hole opening of your vaginia. All he has to do is look for that. Oh yeah, you will bleed too. You better masturbate first. LOL!
2006-09-08 05:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only lose it once.
Often your body will break the hymen from other activities, and your first sexual experince doesn't have to hurt. It will hurt, if you have an idiot for a partner. Chances are, you will have an idiot for a partner, if you give your virginity to a dumb kid.
2006-09-08 05:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you share that secret with him. Most men will like the idea of you being a virgin, so if you like you can tell everyone that you are one.
2006-09-08 05:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He won't know unless he's a doctor and inspects the hymen if it is ripped or not. Kinda like an envelope...but different. One must be trained to know what to look for when inspecting the vaginal area.
2006-09-08 05:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no way of telling unless the first time you have sex he popped your cherry... if you're not a virgin there really is no way of knowing unless you straight up say it yes or no
2006-09-08 05:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he has to strap a 2x4 on his butt to keep from falling in, I think he'll start to get suspicious.
2006-09-08 05:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋