We have been together for 3 years now and she wanted to tkae a break. I love her with all of my heart and know what the problem was with the relationship and have made the changes to better myself and our relationship. I want her so badly and it has been 2 weeks now. Tomorrow we are going to Philadpelphia fora concert and I am wondering if this is my chance. I believe that everything happens for a reason and this concert has been pushed back for months and I know she is the one and I believe this concert was pushed back so far to give me this chance. I am so excited for tomorrow because I haven't seen her this whole time and I hope she will be as happy to see and be with me. I know I have to be myself and cool and all that I want to make it like our next first date if you get what I'm saying. The problem was that she got bored because we never got to go out ot be alone because of things going on but she still loves me. Is this my chance any suggestions on what to do and not to do.
2006-09-08 05:01:24 · 6 answers · asked by Cursive 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself but be kind and thoughtful. Dont be overbearing... just love her. Show her you love her and that you care. I think you have a chance because you have been together for a while and she is already going to a concert with you.
2006-09-08 05:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hhhmmm....this is a tricky situation. Someone wanting a break after 3 years doesn't sound encouraging. I hope your right about you both wanting to get back together. Take this opportunity to have an open talk with her about the "break" and how her feelings are now. When you are in a relationship you HAVE to make time to work on the relationship, meaning...you FIND the time to be alone and go out. That's why relationships are hard work. Put as much effort into it as you do your job. Treat it with the same dedication. As for the date, be charming, loving, supportive, let HER talk and be interested in what she's saying (even if you aren't). At the end of the night, pull out a rose, give it to her and tell her you love her, have missed her, and want to keep seeing her. Make it romantic, women love that. Good luck!
2006-09-08 12:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that you worked to better yourself in the relationship? What about her problems with the relationship. No relationship is one sided, they take work from both sides, not just yours. Take a look at what you call a great girl, and she very well might be, but maybe she needs to put more effort into the relationship too.
She has a mouth, she can say "hey, how about just you and me tonight?" don't blame this all on yourself. And maybe this time apart is good for you, you guys might realize that there are underlying problems, not just boredom.
See how things go at the concert and see what happens from there.
2006-09-08 12:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think breaks are time to give thought to the idea of breaking it all off...there is a possibility she doesnt feel the same passion as she did before but still cares, not the same way u do of course..these r the facts of life.u guys sheould sit down and discuss things...i mean what exactly do u think the "break" wuz for anyway? shes probably giving it thought now
2006-09-08 12:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by melissa q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow, dont be smothering
2006-09-08 12:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's cheating!! who the hell needs a break from sex!!!
2006-09-08 12:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋