My dad is a *****!
2006-09-08 04:58:18 · 17 answers · asked by coreyrate92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
thats is sad......
have you noticed any good in your dad personality?
start focusing on that try to be his friend
2006-09-08 05:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by JTB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I think there is always a time when people think they hate one or both of their parents.
The truth is...they never really do. You can't hate someone who supports you. You may just be going through an emotional phase in your life. You will grow out of hating once you realize the beauty in your relationship.
My aunt and uncle live very close to my dad's house. When i was home, if i would get frustrated or angry I would just go visit them to blow off steam. Try this, it really help. Then later, you will go home and not even remember why you were so angry in the first place.
Now, if he is doing something to you to make you hate him, that is a totally different story. Talk to another adult that you trust...and maybe they will let you stay with them for a while.
2006-09-08 12:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by sour_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your situation. I can't stand my father, but I'm lucky in that I've moved out so I don't have to worry about it.
If you are still at home with him them figuring out why you hate him and trying to find a way to sort it out. If you really can't stand it and can't get away, try talking to someone you can trust, your mother, a sibling, a teacher, and hopefully knowing that someone esle knows what you're going through and can support you will help a little.
It's not the best advise, and I know people will disagree, but the only way I could deal with my father was cutting off all contact, there was no way to resolve it. I haven't seen him, spoken to him, or heard from him or over a year now, and I'm happy for the first time in a long time. You do need to try to resolve the situation, but if you can't, then getting away from him is the only thing I can suggest.
And people can disagree all they want, I'm talking from personal experiance; there are some things you just can't work through.
2006-09-08 12:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by Frankie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being through this phase too. he seemed to me as an unfeeling and unreasonable man, unlike my friends' fathers. what was unknown to me (and him as well) then was he was suffering from cancer (advanced stage).
despite his sickness, i ignored him and caused him more heartaches before his death. i guess my only excuse is that i was too young then. fortunately we had a chance to clear up our understandings and make peace eventually. however, we had lost too much time to causing each other misery instead of forging bonds. 13yrs down the road, i have so little fond memories of my father.
my point is understand him and find chances to communicate with him. i know this is hard, but at least give both of you a chance.
2006-09-08 12:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by phy19050 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not say how old you are but you sound very, very young.
You do not say why you hate him! Does he hit you? Is he unfair to you? or is it perhaps because he expects a certain pattern of behaviour from you?
Parents are a valuable natural resource. Very valuable in later life.
Be very careful what you wish for!!!!
2006-09-08 12:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice I can give is dont let the hate for him consume you. I hate mine too but I've finally let go of walking around with it every day.
2006-09-08 12:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u? i hated my father in my teens and still do in my twenties but i have a very good reason to. when u are 17 u can legally move out like i did!
2006-09-08 12:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the background of course, but do your best to get along. If he is truly a bad person cut ties if you are old enough. You should get counseling to see if they can help you identify the problem and what your course of action should be.
2006-09-08 12:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by Ricky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u can live on ur own just get out of the house...if u need ur dad for all the necessities bear with him until u r fit enough to earn ur living......
2006-09-08 12:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why you hate him. Most teenagers hate their parents for stupid reasons.
2006-09-08 12:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Usagi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋