I'm just wondering because all y friends think i'm the nicest guy they have ever met, but I still manage to remain single for years and yeas dispite going out to meet people a few times a week.
2006-09-08 04:49:53 · 28 answers · asked by jmather62 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd like to add on looking at some of the responces that I am not a p*ssy and I have loads of confidence, and have been single for the last 3 years, and i'm not even picky just looking for 1 thing some1 I get along well with
2006-09-08 06:01:40 · update #1
I know what you are talking about. I'm the nice guy from where i'm from and I belived that for the longest and still do. I finally got the girl I wanted after 3 years of finishing last and still feel like i'm finishing last with her sometimes. But women neglect to see the nice guy until they mature enough and realize that the bad guy prosona isn't what they want. Just keep your head up and keep hoping you will find her. I went through relationship after relationship with all of them (except the current one) cheating so i'll cross my fingers for you and the rest of us nice guys out there.
2006-09-08 05:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there could be a certain truth to that statement... 1st of all, the ans lies with u too... Are you rather choosy in looking for a gf and that so far the girls that u met are not what u are looking for? 2nd, have u been in a previous relationship before and as a result still feeling attached to her and as a result looking for someone similar to yr ex?
Actually the choice is yours.... I guess that u could be looking for love that will be everlasting or real love? :) Thats the reason why u are probably rather careful in making yr pick.... :) There's no such thing as a perfect girl.... So its up to u whether if want to have a relationship or continue to search for the girl of yr dreams.... If you choose the latter, it will be a long wait and search... Its up to u... :) And i wish u all the best.. :) She is probably out there.... Its just a matter of time before u guys will meet... :)
2006-09-08 12:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by chocolatevanilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe that its about being a "nice guy" that makes you have such luck with women. A lot could do with how confident you are about yourself or maybe you are looking too hard for a companion. Just give things time and dont look to into the "nice guy finishing last" thing. Usually the best relationship happens when you least expect it. Most women are actually looking for the nice guys, its just the ones who arent like to fake being nice.
2006-09-08 12:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by theonly_lovebunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop being "the nice guy" bro. Women like nice guys after they're done f-u-ck-ing all the loser jerks and they themselves don't look as good as they used to anymore so they settle for the nice guys. When you're a nice guy, most women will take advantage of you. They don't want a guy who they can easily manipulate, they want a guy who can manipulate them...it excites them. They feel more attraction because the jerk is more unpredictable. Don't ask me why females are so stupid, they just are.
2006-09-08 11:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Will 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks, but there is definietly truth in the statement. I used to think it was a dumb saying but then I dated one of the nicest guys i have ever met and was turned off. He wasn't challenging-he did whatever favor I asked, never challenged anything I said, etc. I dunno. It was overwhelming having someone so nice for some reason.
2006-09-08 11:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by *apes* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think this is true at all................nice guys always come first but only when us girls want something serious and lasting. When us girls go out, we always seem to go fot the guys who have a 'bad boy' image (dont ask me why but we just do), but after a while these guys get quite dull and boring and girls get fed up with their attitude etc and they go in search of a nice guy. so if you havent found anyone yet, just hang on in there...........i know it doesnt seem fair but i can assure you that girls will want you.
2006-09-08 12:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by cheeky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes being nice is not a bad thing. i just wonder why people nowadays do not give importance to the good, and appreciate more the bad things. maybe because they are justifying what they are doing, and ashamed to accept what they did. just hold on to what you believe and always be true to what you feel.
2006-09-08 20:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep... woman want a confident man not a p*ssy. Grow a spine and realize that you are who you are and eventually you'll get the right person.
2006-09-08 12:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever told you that women dont' like nice guys, is complete boll*ocks ! "the nice guy" matter aside, aks yourself did you meet a right person, and if so did oyu loose it through your faul. if not, maybe nobody met your requirements yet.
2006-09-08 12:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys usually finish last because they typically don't show confidence. If you can be nice and confident, you will get ahead.
2006-09-08 12:00:35 · answer #10 · answered by Usagi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋