Seems like a SERIOUS DOUBLE STANDARD
2006-09-08 04:40:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seriously, guys should have many gf and be rewarded for it, like a status symblom, "hey that guy has 49 gf, he must be rich"
2006-09-08 04:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by baseball_saenz 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well hon you're the first person i know who doesn't think that the girl in your question is a prostitute or the other term. At the end of the day if a woman has more than one man or a man has more than one woman they're stupid. with the advent of so many sexually transmitted diseases, condoms are not 100% safe, neither is "pulling out" or "thinking" that if either party is a virgin, or having anal sex or oral sex for that matter. don't waste time worrying about others and their double standards, set some for yourself and live by them, life is too precious and too short to be out their play some kind of sexual Russian roulette with it. You only get one life to live, be faithful to one partner and respect yourself. anyhow all the best.
2006-09-08 11:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by diva anne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As far as I'm concerned the guys know they are ONLY friends with benefits. I dont tell them bullsh*t like the players do. There is a huge difference. Its one thing to sleep with someone as friends with benefits then to make believe you want to be with them for other reasons. Guys will make the girl think they care about them.
2006-09-08 11:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, i thought a friend with benefits is someone you have an understanding with.....this relationship is only about sex and that's it......if a girl has several boyfriends in my book she is considered a player or something else.
2006-09-08 11:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have had to deal with the double standard for far too long now.
Deal with it.
2006-09-08 11:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by cici 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a simple answer. Women are held in society in a different social class then that of their counter part-men. It's not right (don't get me wrong), but that is how it is. Society views women in a different light then men, they put bigger restraints, and more responsibilities on them. Women have a certain way that they are to govern themselves i.e. sex, charector, values, etc. Aside of what society thinks, says, etc. ask yourself "How do I want to be viewed to myself" and then act accordingly. Remember it is your own self respect that you need to think about. Don't let anyone tell you what is or isn't... know this for yourself! Don't use yourself up, let anyone use you, friends with benefits is not becoming of a lady or man! Be the bigger person and respect self!
2006-09-08 11:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by David R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How come when a guy sleeps with several different women he's a stud, but if a woman sleeps with several different men, she's a cheap s1ut.
Hmmm..
2006-09-08 11:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by Laquishacashaunette 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know. In the circles I travel in, people fall into three categories:
1. friends without benefits
2. engaged without benefits or with minimal benefits - nothing you'd get arrested for doing in public :>
3. married with full benefits :> .
Nothing in between. For either gender.
2006-09-08 11:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well last time i heard a girl with many bf shes a slut but a guy with many gf is a stud go figure mate i think its a stupid q anyway if they are only friends with benifits who cares how many u have its nobodys business but ur own
2006-09-08 11:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by brandy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same reason that if a girl sleeps around alot shes a hoe and if a guy sleeps around alot he's a stud
2006-09-08 11:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by Donna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋