I'm 16 years old and ever guy i dated always wanted to cheat on me. I just don't know why. I'm funny, in good shape, and love sports. I don't know what i'm doing wrong. Someone tell me what's going on with these men.
2006-09-08 04:35:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its because they think with the wrong head! And at that age, are only interested in one thing!!
2006-09-08 04:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Serious Mandy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with anybody else unless you make them wrong.
So to call the male race wrong is just crazy, it also implies that because they are wrong, other races are somehow better. The only loser her is you because by calling somebody else wrong you avoid taking responsibility and the more you take responsibility for your life the more successful you will become.
Just as responsibility doesn't make others wrong, responsibility also means you not making yourself wrong. Give it a go.
The reality is either you just keep picking guys that are not right for you or you are driving them away from you. !6 yrs old is a time when people experiment with relationships a lot both men and women, so you might want to manage your own expectations about whether a certain boy is really the one.
2006-09-08 04:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is clear, all you have to do is open your eyes. For the most part all boys want is to get in your pants and every other girl that they can. Expecting them to be monogamous is slightly out of the question. Its not you...its them.
So what does this all mean? Well for starters you must first love yourself and maintain your dignity and self respect. Don't be so quick to have a (so called) boyfriend and just try and have fun with your young life. Any guy that you like make him earn your respect.
Most of all keep your main focus on the BIG PICTURE. Be diligent in your studies and always do the best you can. Adulthood is just around the corner and now is the time to prepare yourself. Boys will come and go. you cannot afford to let them be the center of your life. Become self sufficient and independent. Do not get into the habit of identifying your perspectives and happiness on the whims of men. "To thine own self be true".
2006-09-08 04:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you're not doing anything wrong. I'm 23 and believe me they dont' change as they get older. Most men need sex all the time so when you're not giving it up they find someone that will. Almost every single one of my boyfriends have cheated. It's just in their nature. And any guy last says he hasn't at least thought about cheating is lying.
2006-09-08 04:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by SweetClue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're nevertheless youthful. i'm 21 years previous and that i'm nevertheless youthful! I say this to each body who techniques the male species in the way you do, yet what your experiencing is "some undesirable eggs contained in the dozen". no longer each guy available's a foul or although you may want to imagine. some people, both adult men and women persons, basically want to toughen up and some in no way do. you shouldn't supply up on relationships because you've been dealt some undesirable fingers. As you improve older, you'll initiate searching the "adult men" available who know the thanks to administration a woman with appreciate and dignity and could no longer might want to be troubled about the "boys" anymore. There are some people sturdy ones available, you basically might want to shop searching. you stay and also you study.
2016-11-25 20:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with the male race. There is something wrong with the world though. Most of everyone thinks they don't have to take responsibility for their actions. By the way you are dating boys not men. They have to grow up first.
2006-09-08 04:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first limitation is that they are male. Its hard to get around that though. lately i have pondered turning lesbian. women are nicer, softer, they smell better, they are smarter, more caring, they pay attention to detail and they are better cooks usually. Unfortunately, I am really hetero and like a nice warm male body. The problem is, what do you do with them when you are done? Seems they want to spend the night or want a phone number or something like that. Hon, treat them like they treat you and you'll have them stacked up like cordwood. The worse you treat 'em the more they come back!
2006-09-08 04:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by cici 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all they are not a race, but a gender. They cheat because they're teenagers- it takes guys a long time to grow up sometimes.
2006-09-08 04:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.Foster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just be going after the wrong guys! Maybe the guys that you are dating are that type and that is why you keep dating them.... Try a different flavor.
2006-09-08 04:38:26 · answer #9 · answered by chocolatesyrup101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing to remember is that it is not about you, it is about THEM. Guys your age aren't usually ready for an exclusive relationship. Maybe you should try dating around and just concentrate on yourself, your goals and your friends. There is no rush to be in a serious relationship!
2006-09-08 04:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, 10 years down the road when you are happy and married to the perfect guy you will look back and see all the assholes that did you wrong are getting divorced, in jail and their girlfriend are cheating on them with their best friend, brother.
2006-09-08 18:11:19 · answer #11 · answered by lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋