Two years ago, i broke up with this guy, and he took ages to get over me, he has told me since that he likes me, and that he is still in love with me, but when i dated him, he was a d*** to me, and my mates. recently i have had a good relationship with this guy, and my ex broke us up through lieing, and now he appears to have gone off me, but yet, he won't let anyone else have me, HELP!!!!!!!!
2006-09-08 04:31:27 · 13 answers · asked by Rosalind S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your breakup was inadequate. It clearly needs to be a BREAK UP, as in don't see him any more, don't talk to him on the phone, block his email address, don't go to places you know he'll be. OK, once that's done, the next step is to be sure to prep your next boyfriend. As soon as you start going out with a new guy, tell him you have a crazy ex who is insanely jealous and not over you and that you're a little scared of him (which is not a lie, because you're afraid he might keep coming between you and other guys). This will insure your new guy friends not only don't believe your ex's lies, but also that they won't even talk to him.
2006-09-08 04:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has happened to me!!!! if i were u i would cut all ties with this guy, he is an idiot, its all about the thrill of the chase cos as soon as he has u again he will go back to the same old ways. something for u to always think about is that u broke up an he is an ex for a reason it wont work so dont go there. see he doesnt really want you but on the other hand he doesnt want anyone else to have you, hes selfish and arrogant get away from him girl you will b so much happier i promise
2006-09-08 11:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by brandy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the cops to give him a restraining order.On the other hand i think u have been giving him so much green light and attention that is why he thinks he still have a hold on u.If u're firm that u don't like him,no more lunch or dinner with him and no girlish smiles and look at his direction he'll get the vibes and get out of ur life.U know what u want and should do something about it.
2006-09-08 11:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by folistone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT LET HIM RUN YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!!! if your other half cant see that he will do whatever he has to, to make sure you are unhappy then get rid of him too. someone will find you attractive and accept you for you. trust me my husband was a D.... to me too untell i got a back bone and left him. and now we have the most open communication and he is starting to understand where i am coming from now. but does it work for everyone NO........so just dont let him run you life or he will continue to do it and once he sees that he cant he will stop. it may take awhile but trust me .
2006-09-08 11:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ruthless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man will do what you let him do to you stand your ground tell him to get a lifeand move on!!!!! The boyfrined that believed him over you (unless it was true) he is a jerk ya didn't need him anyways!
2006-09-08 11:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by zawadi20022002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would chop his dick off. I swear. He DOESN'T LIKE YOU AT ALL, he is just playing with your feelings. Don't let a person manipulate your feelings like that. That sucks like hell.
2006-09-08 11:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is a "control freak" and you're gonna end up really hurt someday............get far away from this guy FAST!!!!!!!
2006-09-08 11:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order
2006-09-08 11:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by evian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use an eye sprey when he tries first approach soon
and break his nose then!
2006-09-08 11:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chop his d i c k off that'll solve everything
2006-09-08 11:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋