What do girl's look for in a guy immediately? Things I can change, ie not answers like "look like Tom Cruise" etc. Cheers.
2006-09-08 04:11:56 · 16 answers · asked by AaronO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Basically they want you to look gay and act straight.
2006-09-08 04:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by neoscribbler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is only in my experience so i cant speak for anyone else, but at first meeting a guy i look for-
kindness, manners, intelligence and similiar interests.
The rest all follows!
looks arent necessarily important-and i wouldnt be foolish or dishonest to suggest that they didnt matter at all-as they do to a certain extent. But any girl or woman who would suggest that they have to look like Tom Cruise **grin** is either;
a) Off her trolley like Mr cruise
b) A scientology fan and has been abucted by aliens
c) or...just plain sad...!
At the end of a day first impressions are important but being open and honest, having confidence in yourself and much better wualities in a man!
hope that helps xx
2006-09-08 11:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look like Tom Cruise? Are you serious? Have you seen the pictures of Suri? Why would you procreate with that!
2006-09-08 11:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by Huckleberry Finn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, i think it helps if the guy's not too arrogant and cocky - it comes across as an ugly personality trait.
Secondly, it helps if you're funny.Not overly - it can look forced.Just enough to put you both at ease.
And thirdly,make the most of your assets.Example - if you got a nice smile,use it.
Good luck...
2006-09-08 13:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by willow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We basically look for symmetry. Really! Symmetry in the face, in the body. Apparently women are wired to look for symmetry, because it stands for health and we all want a healthy man to father healthy children and provide for us while we raise our brood. We also look for a man with softer features, because that would mean that he is more likely to like kids, and that's also something we need for our survival.
2006-09-08 11:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice face, nice eyes and smile, clean appearance and clean fingernails for a start. Clothes are quite important too, and a happy smiling face are what makes first impressions good i think.
2006-09-08 11:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humor, romantic, but still has a fun side, and truth. Ok, yh, good looks would be nice, but they don't matter half as much a personality does.
2006-09-08 11:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by Rosalind S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how your dressed be polite not sleazy never tell a joke smell nice be confidante not too confidante be sweet the old way always work be a gentleman treat them nice hope this helps
2006-09-08 11:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by cheryl b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask.. i guess you are not coming across too well.
the answer is that it depends on the girl! i'm sure the one who likes your attributes will notice you soon!! good luck
2006-09-08 11:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by besidetheseaside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attentiveness and respect. Look at who she is and not her body
2006-09-08 11:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by duchess_mary_of_burgundy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋