i live in williamsburg she lives in richmond, last nite 5 seconds after hanging up the phone with me her 41 year old roomate (she's 27) knocked on the door in nothing but underware and a drink he offered her. she declined. after that she blacked out. i told her to get tested immediatly and she is. what else can i do to help this girl right now?
2006-09-08 03:57:07 · 10 answers · asked by skittlez804 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Encourage her to report this-she obviously can't go back to that house. Help her find a place to stay/move or to move her stuff and to find a counselor. Be a good supportive friend, willing to listen without judgement.
2006-09-08 04:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police to see about what to do with the condom, for evidence. Then go with her to the hospital, and help her contact counseling through a rape crisis center or something similar. She may need to get an order of protection against the roommate, and definitely find a new place to live or kick him out. You could let her stay with you, but I don't know how practical that is. Above all, stress the importance of following through with charges, and just be a good friend.
2006-09-08 04:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by taylor619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find somewhere else to stay, at least temporarily. Sounds like she could have been drugged before he got to the front door. She remembers nothing? She needs to go to the police. Now.
Having hickies on her neck and used condoms can mean anything. Does she remember how any of this stuff got where it was?
27 with a 41 year old roommate... what gives?
2006-09-08 04:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jack B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is an exceedingly neat thought and girls folk does not be "compelled" to do something. If a guy has the audacity to purpose to rape a woman he gets what he merits so i do no longer wanna hear something approximately it being merciless or unfair to men. yet i do no longer understand if this might save her existence as in while the guy is in soreness he would exchange into violent and kill the female besides. Makes me ask your self whether rape particularly would desire to be prevented or if as quickly as the RapeX grew to alter into common awareness might rapists only decide a fashion around it? Oh and likewise wearing this element for long quantities of time, would desire to it probably be risky? I mean it might actual cut back airflow and would desire to open you as much as an infection.
2016-12-12 04:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her and comfort her as much as possible. Rape processing is such a humiliating thing. She will need all the support you can give her. Tell her to be strong and not let the police or anyone talk her out of filing the rape charges. Good luck.
2006-09-08 04:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by loser 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did he hit her for blacking out??? thats assault and rape get hold of the local police in her city and start the ball rolling for her in case she is severely traumatized and then get you as* there and assist her the police will contact the rape crisis center for her and don't touch the condom now should she take any showers including the room its a crime scene ////// couple of thingd don't make any sense to me but right now its irrelevant
2006-09-08 04:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by aldo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact the police in Richmond - both local and state.
2006-09-08 03:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is probably in her best interests to contact the police and/or a local rape crisis hotline. Either one should be able to tell her how best to handle this. She ABSOLUTELY should get a full examination. Might help to determine exactly what happened. (And why she blacked out.)
2006-09-08 04:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by danl747 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get her to the cops now, stay with her and support her, be sure to see the hospital and have fluid test, std's test and , and a no pregnacy pill...Cops first!!
2006-09-08 04:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with her to the police.
2006-09-08 03:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋