My ex who was off and on with me for a year finally cut the ties 3 weeks ago because he needed time away from me to date others and figure out if im the "one" or not...well its been 3 weeks since he's talked to me at all and I'm just wondering if u think he'll ever call me again? Hes STILL on match.com & the only time he ever said anything to me during these 3 weeks was he sent me 2 texts last weekend one on friday night @ like 11 "hey can we catch up sometime soon"? and the other one was at 2am on saturday night "R u awake" I'm just mad he's still on match & goes on there almost every night! (you can see how often a person logs on_)
2006-09-08 03:56:10 · 35 answers · asked by BLoNdE22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Match.com turned my best friend psycho for a while(she got better.) I would delete the bookmark to that website and concentrate on other things. Get Tivo and record your favorite television shows. Go for a walk, anything that will keep you away from Match.com.
2006-09-08 03:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by kindofkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wast your life on a loser like this! If for some reason he should come back to you, your life would be hell. From what you said he has abandoned you emotionally and I doubt whether he will come back to you. He is cruel. I would not have him back. Consider yourself fortunate that you did not marry this bum. If he could string you along for a year with no regard to your feelings, something is wrong. Ignore any and all calls from him. Start your search for a REAL man. Go to eharmony.com. They will match you up with a compatible guy. Stay away from him and if he texts you again tell him you are moving on with your life and there is no reason to communicate with him.
2006-09-08 04:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by Marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on with your life and stop going to match.com he is not trying to figure out if you are the one he is trying to keep you around while he eats his cake. You need to stop waiting for him to call and do what it is that you need to do to move on with your life. You know that he is on match.com because you are on there probably checking to see if he is on there. Move on with your life he is keeping you on the side so that he has someone to run to when he is tired of running the streets. You are giving him exactly what he wants and you are not getting anything in return. There is nothing wrong with loving him and wanting to be with him or wanting to be happy but you need to LOVE YOURSELF MORE. If that means kicking him to the curb and being alone for a while then so be it.
2006-09-08 04:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing that then most likely he is looking for another woman. I say stop all contact and find a hobby. Go out with your girlfriends and stay busy. Meet as many people as you can. He is trying to find someone else but keeping you on the side just in case he cannot find anybody.
2006-09-08 03:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain! "He needed time to date others" is code for I don't want to be with you anymore, I'm board, and need to find someone else to be with! And late nite phone calls = Booty Call. Don't give this man the satisfaction! Move on! there are many other men in this world and if you take the time and refuse to settle for a looser you will eventually find the right man!
2006-09-08 04:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by crandle55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your ex then does it really matter if he is still on match.com? He's obviously moved on so shouldn't you be thinking about seeing if there is someone else out there for you?
He will most likly still want to be friends, or maybe he was drunk and was after someone to sleep with. Did you answer his texts?
2006-09-08 04:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by earthangel_ghost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop waiting for him. He's obviously done with you, you should quit wasting your time, tears, soul, and heart on him!!! He's checking out his options, nothing wrong with that. You should do the same. Get out of the house, don't worry with what websites he's going to and meet some people. Hang out with friends. Get out in the sunshine! Do something other than dwell on the fact that it's over.
2006-09-08 04:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip and get over it. He's toying with you and ur playing along. It sounds as if he's keeping the doors open with u to walk in whenever it closes somewhere else...close it before u loose out.
2006-09-08 04:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by colinsilver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, didnt he say he wanted time away? Well it dosent sound like youre giving him any space, back off for a while, Dont contact him wait for him to come to you. Stop sitting and waiting for him go and live youre life too.
2006-09-08 04:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went thru this Myself..play hard to get...go on the same dating site as him...go out and have fun with other guys..if it's meant to be..he'll come back to You...be strong and secure...let Him know He didn't break Your spirit...who knows maybe You'll find someone even better..doesn't sound too hard...lol
2006-09-08 04:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Catherinefaith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋