should i masterbate?

Question

i use to masterbate ever since i was in 7th grade. i was 14 or 13 yrs old at that time and now i am 30 yrs old. my gf keeps telling me there is a problem in me. the reson is that even after intercorsing for long my sperms doesnt comes out. my penis ofcourse would stands erect for long but no sperms will fall until i do it by hand , yes i need to do it very hard . is this normal or am i the only one, what should i do. pls can someone explain me something

Answer 1

Give that man a hand !!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

As long as you get it up for your girlfriend and can satisfy her sexually, I see no problem that you masturbate. However, it sounds like you have desensitized yourself by the way you do it so that vaginal intercourse doesn't provide you with the proper stimulation to climax. I recommend that, as an experiment, you refrain from masturbating for a week or so (or as long as you can). When you have sex with your girl after abstaining for a while, see if your experience is any different. If you find that your problem clears up when you masturbate less then adjust your frequency of masturbation or your method of doing it.

Answer 3

Frequent masturbation causes a loss of brain cells, particularly in the region that controls grammatical sentence structure and spelling.

I'd stop before it's too late.
Oooops, looks like it's already too late.

Answer 4

You've been doing it for so long that the only way you can get off! Time to put some real thought and effort into your sex life. Keep going till u get off, practice practice practice!

Ask her to try anal sex, your hand may have a tighter grip than her vagina

The butt is fabulous according to my man

Answer 5

If you really sure you need help and you love your girlfriend, you can let her do that for you. If you can allow that, you stand the double advantage of giving and receiving from her. Cos by the time she's succking you, she also is getting the pleasures simultaneously with you.

Answer 6

Well dont think that ur are the only one who is masturbating.many are doing.Well what i feel is that since ur masturbating since 14 yrs ur nerves have become accomested to that kind of habit that u had to thrust ur penis hard to ejaculate using ur hand.Well i advice u to please consult a doctor.Dont get panicked with this it is normal.

Answer 7

Its normal, I think shes thinks it not normal, but she doesnt understand the male body or maybe she feels insulted? My ex boyfriend just to jack off at his works bathroom because of his high sexual levels. You have to unload your load, its actually unhealthy to keep it in. As for your girlfriend, tell her that she just doesnt understand and that its not her, its you and it something that you have you to do!

Answer 8

I think that sex is not exciting you enough. You may be more aroused by another man. It's just the way that life is, you are probably gay but your culture and tradition and religion is preventing you from finding sex that you really enjoy.

Either that or you just don't find your girlfriend sexy enough.

Answer 9

I don't think that is a normal thing, so I would strongly advice that you see a doctor. And besides masterbation is not a good thing in the Site of God, that is why he made men and women so that they could make good use of each other.

Answer 10

Go to a doctor and get some valid information.

Answer 11

a friend of mine had to have the tube in his pecker moved to get his wife pregnant see a doctor