Our relationship used to have plenty of passion and i couldn't think of a time when our hands weren't all over each other. Now i can't even remember the last time we got frisky. Is there any hope for the relationship or should i call it quits?
2006-09-08 03:53:44 · 5 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as a 45 year old husband with a sexy 34 year old wife that just left me a few days ago. I love my wife, I didn't abuse her verbally or phyically but I abused her by withholding sex for a good portion of our 12 year marriage
What I did as far as not having sex as often as I should have especally since I dearly love my wife and was not having a affair was wrong, dead wrong and that is part of the reason that I lost her.
If I had it to do all over again, I would make love to my wife as often as I could. Sometimes men get bored with their wives for various reasons, mainly because there is nothing new, no surprises, she smells the same,(even though I wish I could smell her now), she feels the same, tastes the same and no adventure. Now don't get me wrong, because I was wrong and men who don't make love to their wives is wrong and the wives are hurting and are in pain because of it. They [the wives] feel unwanted, unloved and think that there is someting wrong with them but that is not the case it is us men who have the problem.
Women need to seriously talk to their husbands with no distractions and make themselves clear that women have needs too and if the husband is not satisfying their needs their marrage is in jeopardy. You have to get your husbands attention in the conversation to make him understand because we just think it's all talk and we go on about our business while you wives suffer for years in pain with the hurt of not feeling loved.
If I had really known that my wife was suffering so badly, I would hve changed and did something to excite our sexual activity. I am in pain now and the one suffering. If I ever have the chance to win her love back again, she will never suffer from neglect of any kind. I truly lost my best friend and with the sleepless, lonely nights crying, I now know exactly what she was going through. Talk to him seriously, he may not really realize what he may loose, [you] because of his actions. Good luck
2006-09-08 04:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by sharkscue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. You just maybe becoming comfortable with each other. This could be a problem if your an affectionate person. You should talk to your significant other about it to make sure you are on the same page.
2006-09-08 10:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♪ TrickNice ♪♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried initiating or do you even want to? Have a talk with him and maybe you can have the closest answers to your doubt.
2006-09-08 11:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Laetishaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's always hope sweety....have you tried talking to him..? do it right away..! make the first move...i'm sure there's somethin's bothering him...& don't quit...! rekindle those passions you've had...best of luck sweety...
2006-09-08 11:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by james ian h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know but i bet your sexy and beautiful
2006-09-08 10:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by Michael Smith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋