This means that should one date their sister's ex boy friend who she broke up with years ago?
2006-09-08 03:53:36 · 44 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely not! It will have an effect on your relationship with your sister and isn't worth it!
2006-09-08 04:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by *ღ♥۩ THEMIS ۩♥ღ* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well unlike all my sisters, I think you should ask her first... She probably could "Care-less" if you dated him, if she's long done with him... All my sisters did it to me.. And just one time did it bother me, when my one sister, was (I think seeing my other sisters ex-husband, she had two boys from).. I saw his truck parked in front of her apartment for like an hour, so I went over there to borrow, some sugar, or something, just to see what the heck, was going on.. She's in her robe, when she answered the door, they acted like I wasn't even there, my sister hurries up and gets me, my whatever it was, and says: "See ya' later" he didn't even say, "Hi" to me.. They were acting like they either just did it, or were getting ready too... So, I got upset, and called my sister ( the one I'm closest in age too, and closest too period), and asked her, "Does Robert, and Cees, have a good friendship going on, or something cuz, he's been over there, for a couple hours now, and she's in her robe" My sister went "Balisitic!!" She said she was going to call her, but, she never did!! But, she'lll never have the same relationship with her, since that happened.. I felt it wasn't my place,to say anything, but, this was my closest sister, and I really care alot about her, and her feelings... And the other sister who did this has always been a little on the "Trampy side, most of our lives" so I felt it was time, someone knew about her ways, and I felt hurt, for my sister, seeing his truck over there so long.. Otherwise, just check to make sure she's emotionally done with him, and really doesn't care, first!!! I would.
2006-09-08 04:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, what do you want to lay in bed and here about how you sister did things, or what she wound not do, or maybe he just would tell you things to make you do crazy things. sounds like a lot of strees. Also do you want left overs, no. Sounds like a dream come true for the dude, he could tell people that he had sisters, try to get you too drunk and see what happens. If that is the kind of stuff you want to do go for it.
there are many men in the world why share
2006-09-08 03:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by bkbarile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Some people are secure enough with themselves to not feel threatened when a friend or family member dates an ex. However there are those who will not be okay with it. You know your sister better than we do, so you prolly already know the answer.
2006-09-08 03:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by kindofkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! Please don't do this. This falls under those "unspoken rules" that you must abide by. First you should analyze why him and your sister broke up. Then you need to see that its kind of shady for you to date someone that she dated. I dont know how old you are but if she had sex with him that's gross. Sorry
2006-09-08 03:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Vee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if your sister approves. A boyfriend is never worth destroying your relationship with your sister.
2006-09-08 03:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by CK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
big mistake, unless you ask your sister on how she would feel about you dating her ex, i know that's a crazy idea but it beats having a grudge between the two of you!
2006-09-08 03:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by Party Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sister is OK with it, there's no problem.
My sister-in-law and I dated the same guy at different times.
2006-09-08 03:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no you should suport your sister in hating him and also no because if your sister broke up with him or if its the other way around then he cant be to great now can he.
2006-09-08 03:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by ~*The Show Must Go On*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a courtesy, you could ask if she is cool with that. The last thing you want is to tear apart your family over some guy.
2006-09-08 03:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋