i hav a great crush on this guy who studies in my school and both of us r in 10th standard but we study in different sections n i m goin crazy abt him but i can't have a relationship as my culture and my family don't allow this at this age at least(i m 15 and he too).i can only see him in recess or when he or i visit each other's classes and i try every possibilty of doing this.he n i also get tutions frm the same tutor at the same time so i can see him there for 1 hour.it has been almost 4 months now.i 1st saw him at the tution only.i don't know weather he likes me or not so i want to know this but i can't ask him directly and not even ask a friend to do this.so how can i know whether he likes me or not from his actions or his way of talking with me.if i can just know it in some way then that will be enough for me.we hav many things in common and our nature is also almost same.plz help and tell me whether this is just a crush or hav i fell in love with him..plz..tell wat i should do??
2006-09-08 03:46:10 · 12 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i m definately not ignoring my studies as i want to be successful and i m one of the toppers of my class.....
2006-09-08 03:54:22 · update #1
thanx a lot guys thats helping me....i m trying not to think abt all this and focus more on my studies as this is the age for studies of course... i just want to know whether he likes me or not by his behaviour only and will also try to be a good friend of him
2006-09-08 03:59:43 · update #2
i am from punjab ,india
2006-09-08 04:06:51 · update #3
i love and respect my family a lot and to they r the most important and they r not in favour of all these things at this age .....earlier i was against all these things (crush,love,liking,etc. ) but i don't know wat has happened to me now
2006-09-08 04:12:21 · update #4
Try to talk to him about common things..and just ask for going to cinema..But don't forget to tell your parents about this..
2006-09-08 03:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey tulip . You r only 15 so most likely ( not to discourage you) this probably won't b ur last relationship. You should respect your family's opinion even if you feel that they are wrong. you are entitled to your own opinion and so are they. Most of the time the older and more experienced ones know best. If you really like him why don't you start a friendship first and see if you like him outside of school. That can also allow you to find out how he feels. he might open up to you given that it isnt in public. maybe you could explain to your family that you won't do anthying serious with him that would go against any cultural beliefs. You just want to be with the people you care for. But find out how he feels b4 angering any family members! Good luck. And remember that there are lots of guys out there that you can get to know no matter what age you are. Make sure you respect yourself by only going out with guys who will only be good to you. The first sign of disrespect - dump em! trust me , i wish i could have heard myself say this when I was younger. Oh well , lessons learned. You will find your guy.
2006-09-08 04:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
AT age 15yrs. it a crush; and you WILL have many more crushes in your life , before Love (real love) is known by you.--And some people never know what real love is; because they jumped at and settled for a CRUSH--- maybe you should respect your family and culture's wishes a while longer (Maybe)
2006-09-08 04:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he make eye contact with you? smile at him and see what he does if he makes eye contact with you he more than likely likes you if he smiles at you he definatly likes you. Work up the courage to tell him you like him he will probably be amazed and think your wonderfull or if not a least you will know and be able to move on, it doesnt matter what other people think if you like each other.
2006-09-08 03:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by Desmond Tutu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's definately a crush, just be a friend for now, enjoy his company, that will make you feel good. Don't go over board...
2006-09-08 04:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by *Cutie* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep doing what You are...sounds to Me as though He definitely noticed You by now...try writing him a letter..expressing some interest in him..see what happens...good luck...young lovers!
2006-09-08 03:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by Catherinefaith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on your studies.
2006-09-08 03:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to him and try not too hard.. just be yourself.. if he doesn't like you then screw him! there's a lot of guys out there in the real world anyways...
2006-09-08 16:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know your culture and family won't allow it then just focus on your education;;;I think it's just a crush....
2006-09-08 03:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by guess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go talk to him and find out and if he dose go out with him and no tale ur parents, i have done that before and got away with it.
2006-09-08 03:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋