This is a bit embaressing, my boyfriend is well endowned, he is the perfect length, but he is very thick. I get sore even if I use lube. Is there any other suggestions to get used to his size?
2006-09-08 03:42:40 · 45 answers · asked by imix3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Practice makes perfect. Your body will conform, with time. Remember that one day a child will emerge through there, it stretches. In the meantime, longer foreplay may help to lubricate you more. Also, try not to think about the pain and concentrate on the pleasure. Your mind plays a huge part in the sexual experience.
2006-09-08 03:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin, if u have to use lube then there isn't enough foreplay!
Start with more foreplay from him to u, this will get your more lubricated with your own natural lube.
And yes over time it will get easier to handle him, however if the 2 of u break up, you could very well be ruined for any other man whose not part horse.
2006-09-08 03:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by koleebear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U seem to be very apprehensive when u make love and the thought of making love sometime bring fright into u,this way u won't be moist during the process.With such dryness u are to end up having bruises.another way out is using lubicants frequently.Love making is meant to be enjoyed not a painful process,free ur mind and see the beauty of it over time u'll be able to accomodate him.
2006-09-08 03:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect
2006-09-08 03:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by ajd1bmf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More fore play is needed, and time will cure all problems, trust me on that one. IF you do not need a lot of time to get there, get him closer BEFORE the nitty gritty. That will shorten the time and reduce the chaffing. And use plenty of lube for the time being...you will loosen up with a little time..sorry for your discomfort..perhaps he should share the wealth..here, we usually see the opposite "problem." :-)
2006-09-08 03:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think with practice you'll both be more comfortable with each others bodies. Until then, plenty of lube and foreplay and relaxing! <3
2006-09-08 04:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kermit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repitition
2006-09-08 03:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ron K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your man that he needs to go downtown more. the Vagina can stretch out enough to have a 10 pound baby. i am pretty sure he aint that big. if he is he needs to move to Hollywood and change his name to John Holmes Jr.
ANYWAY there is no substitiue for natural lubrication. So find new ways to increase your natural lubrication system.
2006-09-08 03:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by mig_killing_pigs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had that problem all my life. Just keep full of Castrol 30 weight motor oil, and change the oil every 30 times.
2006-09-08 03:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by Nascarcrazy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try riding him so that you can control the movements and how much of his penis you take in. Plus he'll probably enjoy being able to lay back and enjoy the view.
2006-09-08 03:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♪ TrickNice ♪♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋