I have this friend with benefits thing going my best guyfriend, but he's in college a few hours away, but we still talk a lot on the phone. The thing is that I met this really fun guy at the club the other night and he wants to go out with me, could I really do both? Because it's not like I'm really doing anything with my friend anymore and he knows about this new guy, just not how much he's interested in me.
2006-09-08 03:41:11 · 13 answers · asked by jowolf87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep a long distance relationship with your friend w/ benefits and go out with the other guy. When you friend with benefits comes home tell him then that the benefits is on hold for now.
2006-09-08 03:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to grow your circle of friends, increasing your pool of possible partners in the future, then by all means go ahead! But make sure that you do not commit to anyone person, to be fair to yourself as well as your future partner. In this way, you will ensure that any relationship that you commit tom later will have less chance of breaking up!
2006-09-08 04:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do anything u like seeing as u aint dating. go out and have fun with this new guy he might really impress u and if he does it will be a bonus because he doesnt live hours away i say give it a go and see how it turns out u have nothing to lose
2006-09-08 03:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by brandy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the new guy. Friends with benefits only works out when you need for sex out weighs the respect you have for yourself and the desire to be truely wanted and loved. I'd bail and go for the one who is actually interested in you.
2006-09-08 03:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. This is a disaster waiting to happen. Somewhere somebody is going to develop feelings and then you'll be stuck in a love triangle and then you'll be back on Yahoo answers asking us what to do next..... I see it a mile away.
2006-09-08 03:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cancel the friend with benefit contract ...(just remain friends) and have fun with the new guy, because I'm sure the new guy isn't down with your bestfriend with benefits relationship.
2006-09-08 03:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE SOMEONE IS BEING A LIL SLUTY YOU NEED TO MAKE UP YOUR MIND WHO YOU WANNA **** AND WHO YOU WANT TO LET CAUSE PPL LIKE YOU WHO SLEEP WITH ALL THIS GUYS AT ONE TIME ARE THE REASON SO MANY INNOCENT PPL END UP WITH STD'S
THAT WAS A STUPID QUESTION
2006-09-08 03:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All adults?
Everyone knows about each other?
No one feels commited?
2006-09-08 03:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ron K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are single, you have every rights to choose.
2006-09-08 03:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by Grace is a liar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
2006-09-08 03:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋