I really like this fella called Chris and Ive been texting him alot and stuff being kinda flirty but he just does not respond to the flirting. He's very intelligent and into school work and stuff, I dont think he goes out clubbing much or anything but I still really like him. We have a few mutual friends and I asked one of them to have a chat with Chris and subtlely find out what he thinks. He did this and found out Chris does like me but doesnt know what to do because anotehr guy really likes me (this guy is Chris's and my friend but Ive told this guy long ago notihng will happen). I just dont know what to do....help?
2006-09-08 03:34:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
follow your heart. be ready for pain.
2006-09-08 03:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by goodbye and good luck :-) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tnx goodness that you've chosen a very fantastic screen-name for yourself - the_real_anna. I believe that you're really a cute and smart gurl with your approach to this issue. But, the next line of action should be to approach this guy personally. Please, do it right now if you can. Firstly, you need to create a forum for a chat with him. Just start on a casual note, then go on to tell him how you feel about him. You shouldn't have any problem in handling that creatively. If he raises any concern about this other guy (very certaing he will do so), then try and convince him that you've got nothing to do with this other guy. It's just as simple as that. But note this must be done NOW cos you don't know whether or not some of those you call your "friends" also have interest in this guy. Good luck.
2006-09-08 03:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy Chris, tell that other fella that you are
not interested in him.
Go ahead and let Chris know that you cleared the air with
that other guy
2006-09-08 03:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU LET CHRIS KNOW YOU HAVE TOLD THE OTHER GUY NOTHING WILL HAPPEN YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED. THEN YOU AND CHRIS HAVE A TALK SET YOU UP A LITTLE DATE AND LET THINGS GO FROM THERE AND IF THE OTHER DUDE ISNT HAPPY FOR YOU THEN THAT IS HIM YOU HAVE TO MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY NOT EVERYONE AROUND YOU.
2006-09-08 03:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Chris to stop making excuses if he like you then go out with you.
2006-09-08 03:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by up2sumpthun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up 2 him and b lik chris i lik u.(but do it in a cute kind of jokin way),but let it b known u r seriou at the same time!!!then take it from there!!!!!u already no he likes so u have nothin 2 b scared of!!!!!
2006-09-08 03:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like Chris then that is who you should be with. Don't ever settle for less then want you deserve.
"the minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get less than you settled for"
2006-09-08 03:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by queenbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call up Chris YOURSELF and ask him out!!!!!!! You better do it before someone else isn't as shy and reels him in first!!!!!
2006-09-08 03:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow your in a pickle. i think you should just wait to see what he does. if he likes you enough he will make a move.
2006-09-08 03:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by Me♥Manatees 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best talk to him yourself and tell the other guy to ack up fo he get smackd up
2006-09-08 03:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋