why do woman make having sex so complicated? why not put that energy into having better and more sex????

Answer 1

Sex for a woman IS complicated, both physically and mentally. We need our brains turned on before anything else. Most guys aren't willing to do that. At least you are pretty much guaranteed a climax, whereas its a rarity for most women (mainly because men don't put their energy into getting us to that point.)

Answer 2

Hey Kevin,

Being a regular guy, I used to think that just jumping on and doing what you have to do was the right way and should be the right way, until I educated myself on the manner.

Woman and Men are two totally different creatures when it comes to sex and mother nature did it that way for a reason.

Women are wired for family, nurturing and caring for their young.

Men instinctively just want to spread there seed and evolve....

Those are the physical differences. Emotionally, a woman must feel completely SAFE to really enjoy sex. This means enviromentally, and emotionally (for example she may be worried about her body, or the way you think of her, will he think I'm a slut if I do this or that). So your job is to make them feel as safe and comfortable as possible before hand. Here you win half the battle.

Men, are visually stimulated and just seeing a woman naked will do the trick basically.

So to cross this bearier, we need to do a little extra.

Tell her how great she looks (and mean it), how nice she smells, and that you love her (or care about her) (or at least think she's pretty cool) whatever it is that will make her feel safe. (You should really mean these things not just say them to get what you want).

So knowing this she becomes much more open and now much more willing to have better sex. Therefore, better sex means more sex for you.

It's like building a house really. You have to set the foundation before anything, and once you have a solid enough foundation then you can build your house as tall as you like, and decorating can be as wild as you like.

You will be amazed how far a little honest to goodness sweet talk will get you I think.

Hope that helps, and good luck.

Answer 3

If you think women make sex complicated then what are you doing to simplify it, maybe it's you, sex is fun, period.

Answer 4

we would but majority of the men do the same things and not always long enough

Answer 5

Cause maybe they don't want to have sex with you.....

Answer 6

because we get bored with the same things.