I like a girl call Kata Li (fake name) since last year 2005. But for this year, I decided that I had to take the initiative to woo her. Now, I secretly follow her whenever she goes. She does not seem to care about me. Are there any ways to improve and am I doing the right thing?
2006-09-08 03:27:10 · 15 answers · asked by JR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you must know a great deal about her...What does she like? Is she available? Get over yourself and ask her out. Maybe she's not that gorgeous once you've talked to her...
2006-09-08 03:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, following her around is called stalking and in many states there are laws to prohibit this activity. If she knows that you are following (stalking) her she's probably already freaked out by you. And it's too late to redeem yourself.
If she doesn't know, stop now before it's too late. Approach Kata Li (usually referred to as Jane Doe) and ask her about her interests and see if she's interested in going out on a date with you. This would be much more fulfilling than your previous methods.
2006-09-08 03:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by vir9inia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Following a girl that doesn't want you to follow - it's called stalking.
Just because you like her doesn't obligate her to like you.
If she's not interested, you need to find someone else to focus on.
Be more mysterious - send something sweet. Find out what she likes and give it to her. But stay away.
2006-09-08 03:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by lrad1952 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
If you want to "woo" her, don't stalk her. That's creepy. Find some way to talk to her. Get to know her. You can't know that she doesn't care about you by following her around.
2006-09-08 03:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she know u like her? how about the face to face thing and TELL her u like her?? this secret following thing has to stop, someone will find out and label u a stalker and your social life will be shot dead b4 it starts.
2006-09-08 03:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by koleebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, don't stalk them. By doing that you are violating her individualism. What you need to do is build an inner core strong enough to face the fact that she might reject you, then give it your best shot to try to win her by letting her know you like her w/o telling he explicitly.
2006-09-08 03:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by Gangantuan-Megalopolis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
following her wow stork-er.
how about , try to make friends with her Friends and then have a party and asked them to bring her and maybe then you can talk with her and slowly woo her .
sly into her group of friends and she will be one to and maybe a your girlfriend but never let here know that you followed her . !!!!
good luck
2006-09-08 03:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by gabrielsmama22904 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Following her without her knowing is not considered "courting".
2006-09-08 03:32:17 · answer #8 · answered by shorty tacos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to stop following her wherever she goes...
Then just talk to her...be yourself and if she doesnt like it...find another girl you like...
2006-09-08 03:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by Doug110982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your stalker her, so that's definitely NOT right. You need to build some courage and ask her out. If she says no, then move on....
2006-09-08 03:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋