Is it just like completely impossible for any man at all to ever stop watching porn? Is that all they do no matter what you try to do to stop it? NO matter how happy you try to make them will they always watch porn? And not think twice about it maybe hurting their "lover" ???? Is it completely inconsiderate of them or do I just need to grow the hell up?
2006-09-08 03:22:57 · 30 answers · asked by tem_in_a_box 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what you mean but ill tell you this my ex watched alot also so I would get all offended about it but as time passed I didnt make it a big deal so what I did I tried it out watched a few and guess what I like porn now I took it as a learning deal. Like positions, and clothing, and even toys. So I mean you can make it a deal or turn it positive. I did and he ejoyed it very much he thought that was hot. If you cant beat em join em. Thats just my opinion.
2006-09-08 03:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, It's just a phase. I personally really don't get the entire point of porn. I mean, it's not like your going to get the girl anyways, someone else already has her a lot more then you do. Honstly, I think he'll come out of it. A few of my friends were sucked into it for a while, and after a month or two I was shocked to go over their house and be like "wow, no porn? You've changed." they pretty much said "if you see one you see it all there really isn't a difference." He'll come out of it eventually. You just have to give him time. We are only males here, nobody is perfect.
2006-09-08 03:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by Alden C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the person who needs to grow up is you. Men are very visually stimulated creatures. However, there is no correlation between the watching of erotica and our feelings for the person we are with. We have the capability to keep that separate. If you could just accept that men and women are fundamentally different in this way you would be so much happier. Ignore the fact that your man likes to look at sex and naked women. Besides, what do you care how he gets all turned on as long as he comes home and faithfully only has sex with you?
2006-09-08 03:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if they are happy with their spouse welll then they shouldnt be looking at porn. I mean what are they looking for ? If you are the apple of their eye well then what do the porns have you dont So i think its inconsiderate of them or maybe i need to grow the hell up too.
2006-09-08 03:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by luckyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are very visual. They enjoy watching sex and other people getting off.
Try having sex with your partner with the lights on, or in broad daylight. Don't be afraid to talk dirty either. Men are pigs and they love to be owned in bed. Mix things up. Be spontaneous. Be risky. Be perverted.
I bet that would lessen his need for porn. A live body is ALWAYS better than porn. As long as it's not a cold fish he's doing. :)
2006-09-08 03:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, yes men watch porn. Its a fact of life. No matter how happy they are in a relationship, and how satisfied he is with is woman, he will still watch porn. Sometimes its a bonding thing between him and his friends (i.e. beer, pizza, and porn nights) or sometimes he just needs a little visual for his masterbation (yes, no matter how much sex they get they still masterbate on a regular basis). Its just a fact of life, and don't feel like he is trying to replace you with the porn.......
2006-09-08 03:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by latina21_01ucf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right.If a man have porn addiction,he does not need a partner,or a real woman.For me, I do not need porn.Why?The best I have is my woman.If we have a good,healthy sex,and we satisfy one another;we do not need porn stuff.Yes,I should tell you a lie;if I tell you that we never watch porn stuff; yes,we do sometime together.But really: we do not need porn stuff for to have a good sex. We need only one to other (the couple). Porn always destroy the relationship,when the man or the woman have addiction to porn.Good question.
2006-09-08 03:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it something he does alone? I think I would be offended if my guy just disappeared in the bedroom to watch it by himself, but, we enjoy watching porn together. We've learned a lot about each other, discussed likes and dislikes and it has improved our sex life a lot! Give it a try. You might find that you like it just as much as he does.
2006-09-08 03:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, if you can't stop him, why can't you join him in watching it. In doing so, you may even suggest the particular movie or actors/actresses of your choice. Remember that watching porn is NOT peculiar to us guys alone. Of course, porn movies are not acted by male stars only.
2006-09-08 03:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was going out with you then i would not watch any porn, because i would be too busy giving you all the pleasure i could
2006-09-08 03:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋