We have been together for 3 years and we have been on a break for 2 weeks so far. I hate it so much but I love her with all of my heart and would do anything for a chance to be with her. So I know what what was wrong and why she wanted to take a break and I am not sure if I should initiate getting back together or wait til she can see through hanging out or what not that I've changed those things. I wasn't ok at first really heart broken instead of thinking of whats wrong and that she wanted this for a reason. Anyways tomorrow we are going to Philadelphia to see a concert. I know to just be myself the person she fell in love with but I dont know if i should try anything more than friends i mean even if things go that way in fear it will only be for tomorrow even though I would love to have her again even if it is just for an hour, but i really want her beyond that. Anyways Ive said enough on the subject should I bring her flowers when I pick her up ever try to kiss her or sing our song
2006-09-08 03:12:56 · 7 answers · asked by Cursive 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-08 03:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by dark^wishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give her any flowers and dont sing her a song. She wanted a break so as of right now treat it like a break. On the way to the concert though I think you should have a talk with her. Tell her exactly what you said in the question. You know why she wanted the break, you see what went wrong and that you are willing to change.
Now, she agreed to go to the concert with you, so that means that this a test to see how much you have changed (yes, girls like to test men like that) If she really want a full break and that this was a possible totally over with relationship, she wouldnt have agreed to go with you, But since she did, this is your chance to get her back.
If she still wants the break, then ask her how you should act at the concert, if its just a friend then act like a friend, get her drunk and the truth will come out. Good luck!
2006-09-08 03:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the reason for the break? I think you need to appear cool, confident, and collected. You need to be upbeat and happy. I wouldn't bring flowers, etc... She needs to know (or think) that this isn't breaking you. You should want a person to be with you because they want to, not out of pity. Try to have fun and let her make the first move. She pushed for the break, so she needs to be the one to undo it. I went through this a lot with my ex that I dated off and on for 4 years. Good Luck!
2006-09-08 03:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by lnfinitelylnteresting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would pick her up and ask if it would be ok if you gave her a kiss because you missed her so much. if she says no, listen and dont push the subject. when you're walking with her, let your hand brush against hers a few times "accidently" it might lead to her holding yours. but try to hang out as if its your first date all over again.
2006-09-08 03:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty just pick her up, go to the concert and that is that cause if you pursue it, she will back away even further.
2006-09-08 03:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being on a break signals the end my friend.. i think you can better end it yourself and get it over with... a "break" often means a girl wants to date other guys and thus doesn't want to harm you by breaking up...
Give her the old ultimatum... end now or keep on, and be quick with the answer.
2006-09-08 03:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bram A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
till her you miss her or till her how you feel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-08 03:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by LiL'rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋