Ok so theres this guy named rob and i like him so much but I cant tie him down. He doesnt want a girlfriend. Im not an ugly girl. Im actually very nice and pretty. I know he feels something there but hes like to scared to settle down. OR am i not good enough??? He tells me all the time im perfect but hes not the type of guy that I wud want as a boyfriend. I WANT HIM ALL MINE!! Im sure he gets so many girls that im just one of his 100. WHAT can I do to make his feeling for me strong????? This guy is like Mr.Perfect in every way and any girl wud fall in love just like me.
2006-09-08 03:05:03 · 14 answers · asked by IITSMee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your question is very confusing. If he doesn't want a girlfriend that don't pressure him. It doesn't matter if you're ugly or not. Believe or not guys are not ONLY interested in looks.
He tells you you're perfect all the time, but you say he gets so many girls. How many other girls do you think he says that to?
He sounds like a player to me , and I know a little something about that. If he liked you he'd let you know.
2006-09-08 03:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I am in the same situation right now and I am confused as you are. I have tried everything and I know that not all guys are the same. But he has told me the samething that he know I would never want someone like him and that he's not ready to settle down with a girlfriend. But all I think I could suggest is that enjoy evey monent that you spend with him and dont really bring up the sujuect about a girlfriend. Just make him feel wanted and loved when he's with you..and I think he will realize on his own that he means alot to you and that he needs no one else. As for my situation I just stoped trying as he wasnt all that thrilled to have some one like me ..so I just let it be if he cares about me or misses me he'll come around when he's ready. U can not make someone be someone they are not already. GOODLUCK :)
2006-09-08 03:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you can't make some one love you. Either they do or they don't. He is trying to tell you that he does not want just one girlfriend. You are headed for a broken heart. Let go now and move on. You didn't say your age, but I am guessing under 25. There will be other men in your life, trust me. Rob is not your Mr. Perfect.
2006-09-08 03:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY YOU ARE THE FEW LUCKY GIRLS THAT GET A REAL ANSWER . THE GUY IS TELLING YOU HE'S NOT BF READY AND YOU SHOULD RESPECT THAT, AND NOT TRY TO PUSH HIM INTO SOMETHING THAT HE DOES NOT WANT TO DO, LOOKS HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH IT , FACE IT HE JUST DOES NOT WANT A GIRL FRIEND AND THAT'S THAT. WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO MAKE SOMEONE BE WITH YOU HE'S SOUNDS LIKE A GREAT GUY , SO DON'T BLOW THE FRIENDSHIP OVER NOTHING AND RESPECT WHAT HE'S SAYS AND REMEMBER HE WAS VERY HONEST WITH YOU , HE'S A PLAYER AND HAS A RIGHT TO BE, THAT'S WHY HE TOLD YOU, SO LAY OF AND KEEP THE FRIENDSHIP LOL
2006-09-08 03:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's already telling you that he likes you but doesn't want a relationship, then he's most likely doing to have his fun with you and then start screwing someone else. I hate to be blunt and the barer of bad news; however, when a guy says that he doesn't want a girlfriend, then it means he wants to sleep around, simple as that.
If I was you, I would spend your energy somewhere else.
2006-09-08 03:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he's already given you the answer. He's probably a booty hunter and like you enough that he doesn't just want you to be another notch on his bed post. Take the hint and move on.
2006-09-08 03:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 out of 100. Sorry
2006-09-08 03:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by bicheeeened30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear his a dumass if he cant see your feelings maybe your trying to hard. Don't force him just constantly remind him that your there and he will realize it after all that your the one
hang in there girl....
I was in that same situation and now I've got him and its been 5months now...
2006-09-08 03:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by pickaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some self respect,give him an ultimatum,if he wants you bad enough he will give up other girls,if he doesnt you should find someone else.
2006-09-08 03:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by Alfred E. Newman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT TO BE RUDE BUT THE LINE OF I AM ONE OF THOSE GUYS YOU WOULDNT WANT TO BE WITH IS CLEARLY A TURN DOWN HE'S NOT INTERESTED. HE HASNT GROWN UP ENOUGH AND HE SEE'S THAT YOU HAVE AND THAT SCARES HIM THAT HE WOULD BE SETTLED DOWN AND HE DOESNT WANT THAT. NOT NOW ANTWAYS!!!
2006-09-08 03:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋