So the past couple weeks have been kind of stressful between my g/f and me. We have been dating 3 months and i am absolutly in love with her and have been wanting to step it up in the relationship, not pressuring her though, because i don't want her to fake being a way, last nigght, after a stupid little fight she said i love you to me for the first time... then while holding her she started to cry, and then we didn't really talk about it because it was late and now i work all day.. i'm so confused.. does anyone know what this could be about?
2006-09-08 02:32:52 · 21 answers · asked by Moto 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She was probably crying over the fight, and thinking about it made her feel bad. You both love each other, that is good. Email her or call her from work on your break just to say hi or that you were thinking of her.
2006-09-08 02:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by KC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww! you have to understand that for girls, small things mean a lot. The reason why she started crying was probably because she was thinking about the fight, and that she could have lost you, so she finally told you she loved you for the first time. and in case you didn't know 'firsts' are a BIG deal to girls. When you two shared your first kiss, she probably cried then too, lol. if not right then, at home. Don't be confused, if she ever cries,and your holding her, or doing something sweet like that, its a good thing. ^.^
2006-09-08 02:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How nervous are you when you first say those words-or have you? If she said it while or after you two were fighting, it could be just built up emotion. Or, since you 'didn't talk about it' and just held her, she may think you do not feel the same way. If you truly care about her, be kind and patient and TALK to her. We love analysing everything! Especially when we are unsure of ourselves.
2006-09-08 02:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by jersey girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big B that is not an approiate answer so I reported you!
Moto to start an serious relationship as you said you want to step it up with her you have to first be able to talk to her, about problems so just ask her youhave tobe able to talk about anything if you really care about her . In any relationship you need to talk how are you going to know what is wrong if you dont?
2006-09-08 02:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by netgirl1961 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are luck man! thats an expression of deeper love for you. She really loves you . She meant that regardless the fight she still loves you and was also a sign humble. Take heart dont get confused, your gal loves.
2006-09-08 02:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like an emotional week for your gf fights etc can make her upset she probably told u because she couldn't keep it in anymore. tell her u feel the same. enjoy a lovely long future together
and remember if you dont want kids keep that bad boy covered up ;)
2006-09-08 02:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people are afraid of the emotion of love and/or shocked that they are capable of loving another person. But I'm not suggesting that this is the case, just speaking from personal experience.
2006-09-08 02:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Allan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously something is on her mind. I suggest you talk about it to her and don't foget to mention that you love her too. Maybe she feels that you don't love her and maybe she was embarrased telling you this after only a few months. Just talk and tell her that you love her too because you wouldn't be asking this if you weren't.
2006-09-08 02:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by surani_ud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could've just been upset about the fight, and or relieved that the fight was over...
or she cou;d've been happy that she said i love you and realised that she didn't want to lose you after that fight... i understand why you would be confused but i read this question and thought it was quite sweet.
i hope ive helped slightly and i wish you the best.
x x
2006-09-08 02:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I want to say thank you to Angel, because WTF did we do before he trademarked that expression!!:) (I say it with love and respect) But now to you - it sounds like it was a huge deal for her to be able to say it and she had a little emotional breakdown. Don't over analyze. She said it - she probably meant it, if not you'll find out today or tomorrow...
2006-09-08 02:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sidoney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋