Okay , I fell in love and then my heart was broken. he's got a new girlfriend but he's showing me signs that he still wants me back.Plus he doesn't really like her based upon what his sister told me.I really did love him.WHAT DO I DO?
2006-09-08 02:16:08 · 27 answers · asked by Wise woman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confused, it's really tough to be rejected. We always want the one we love back. The thing is sweetie, if he did it once, he is going to do it again, unless he goes to counseling to figure out why he is such a jerk. He is keeping his options open. He wants you in the wings in case this thing doesn't work out with the flavor of the moment. Please, don't fall for it. Please get on with healing your broken heart, and swiftly move forward. Love is a Biachhh. What you will probably get from this, if you move on, is a bit more self respect. You are worth better than he gave you. After you get your heart to stop hurting, then begin the search for the guy who will treat you with respect and dignity. Too many times I see women of all ages, going through the very same thing you are. They go back to that guy, because they love him, and it robs them of self esteem and self worth, because he continues to treat them badly. Please, please, please, move on. Let him find out the great girl he pooped on, let him be the one to feel the pain. Mr. Right is out there looking for YOU. Don't let him down by taking Mr. Right Now back. Loves and best wishes. Nana
2006-09-08 02:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... OK...You obviously still love him. Here's the thing... he's still got a GF. If he REALLY wants you back, he'll shed the GF and talk to you. If not, then he's really doing you a disservice by putting you in an awkward position.
Wait a couple of days... see what he does. If he does nothing, then I suggest you move on. Don't beat yourself up.
2006-09-08 09:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He left you for another love. Don`t you think it`s fair to yourself if you do something to win him back? The mere fact that he left you is a sign that he does not care for you anymore. Look at the other fields....the more you see greens the chances of choosing the best!
2006-09-08 09:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by maconsolviaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was You i Wouldn't Do It You'll Only Get Your Heart Broken Again
2006-09-08 09:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Shanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two Options for you: -
1. Just give him some hint n den sit back.....let him come to you.
2. Ask his sister to give proper info about his interest if she is your good friend. If his sister gives a green signal den go n tell him dat u love him.
Dont waste time.....nobody likes to wait.
2006-09-08 09:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and see. I always believe that a guy should make the first move but you can just try by talking to him and letting him know that you are still interested in him?
2006-09-08 09:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by awkwardsmile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, how did you broke up? is it because of the girl? you said he's still showing you signs that he still wants you but did he broke up with his new girlfriend? if he's courting you again and he's still with he's new girlfriend then don't believe him coz if he really don't want that girl he's going to get rid of the relationship right? try to find out the truth! you by your self can do it!
2006-09-08 09:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by honeyko_japan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who broke off the relationship.... If he has a girlfriend, that's saying that he is trying 2move on..... I wouldn't try 2be w/him.... the reason I say that is because it's like U are settling for his companionship..... Don't let love blind U.....
2006-09-08 09:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart tells you to do. Most of the time your heart never fails.
2006-09-08 09:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by sea 26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. What happened to cause you guys to break up in the first place?
2006-09-08 09:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋