My boyfriend has a few kinky ideas but I thought I would check in with my brothers and sisters on YA religion and spirituality first.
2006-09-08 01:41:47 · 29 answers · asked by Ask Donna 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
ABSTINENCE IS NOT AN OPTION!
2006-09-08 01:47:12 · update #1
What kind of kinky ideas are these?
I suppose anal sex by some of your fellow christians is classed at birth control, maybe you should try it too. Surely it cant hurt to try...
2006-09-08 01:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by A_Geologist 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on your religious preference. It is my understanding that Catholics believe that you should not use any birth control. In that case, abstinence would be the only acceptable effective option. Many other religions do not have such restrictions. Either way, I urge you to protect yourself from STDs by using a condom. Pregnancy is not the only thing you can "get" from unprotected sex.
2006-09-08 01:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by PurpleAnkh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of the fact if the church accepted delivery administration it does not purely contradict its classic coaching, besides the fact that it would undermine the whole good judgment of its coaching on sexual ethics. The Catholic view of intercourse is this is a contemporary from God it is meant to serve 2 applications. It unites a husband and spouse, bodily and emotionally, offering exhilaration to the two, and it provides the skill of reproduction. something which intentionally prevents the two of those applications is a sinful abuse of the present. If the church have been to declare that delivery administration became into valid, then it may well be asserting that this isn't any-longer needed for intercourse to be open to procreation. yet this might develop questions approximately different components of sexual morality. Why, working example, could intercourse be limited to hetrosexual couples if reproduction is no longer one in each of its needed components? further, why is masturbation incorrect if birth control isn't? delivery administration is largely a malicious program undertaking. it ought to no longer look a great undertaking, yet whilst the church replaced its coaching in this one matter it would discover it very stressful to look after different areas of its coaching.
2016-10-14 11:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to let you down. But 1st sex is meant to be in a marriage then if you are married it is a matter between your husband and you and it will take serious prayer whether this is appropriate or not. I personally believe in marriage the withdrawal birth control should be used. because if your using contraception then this will stop God from wanting to produce a new creation . please be very careful in this decision to be even having sexual encounters with your boyfriend this is sexual immorality and all through the bible God the Father and Jesus and the Holy Spirit say no to immorality of course for your own good. one so you won't have multi-partners, won't fall pregnat out of wed-lock, won't catch any disease and the most important you wont feel used when you do break up with your boyfriend if you don't marry him. and sex is a very intimate and sacred things set apart by God for marriage. I wish you well in your decisions. please be patient and wise.
2006-09-08 01:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by jesus' princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The natural way. The rythym method. The first 5 days after a womans period, her body is adjusting, and you can JUMP UP
AND DOWN all you want, and have some gratifying sex.
The second week she ovulates. And the third is the most
fertile period. Then she has her period, which is not a curse,
but a blessing. In that it washes the unused egg out of her body
before it gets old and makes her sick.
2006-09-08 01:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what could be kinky about the Pill or condoms? Or maybe I'm missing out on what you consider kinky?
If it's not immediately apparent, I wouldn't trust that God... wait, isn't he the guy that said, "Be fruitful and multiply?"
2006-09-08 01:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by princessblacklung 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God preders abstinain from sex till after marriage reason for purity of soul and spirit and for health reason's and he prefers using dating to find a life partner, and by having sex before hand cheapens things. and also while dating you don't know if things are going to work out right or if your boyfriend has been true to you or not and what he is carrying.after marriage natural spacing and usually any kind but sterilization..
2006-09-08 01:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mary S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abstinence...
2006-09-08 01:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by SassyGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the rhytmn method and abstience would be the forms of birth control that God finds acceptable. Maybe others too, I don't know.
2006-09-08 01:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abstinence, until marriage.
2006-09-08 01:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by dirtbag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋