Me and my boyfriend are very close, we love each other more than anything, and I know that we're probably going to have sex very soon, but im afraid to show him my body. he's got abs and what I believe to be a perfect body, and im not fat or anything but I don't have a 'barbie' body either. He's told me that im beautiful, and that he loves me inside and and out, but im still afraid.
2006-09-08 01:39:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then don't.
2006-09-08 01:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Eric H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bfriend has the most amazing abs and also what i think is the best body of any man i have ever seen. at first i was also afraid to show him my body but after the first few times it got better and i became very comfortable with him seeing me naked. but to tell you the truth when i first got with my boyfriend i began wanting to look better for him so i would go the gym and do as many sit ups as possible now i have quite decent abs and i feel alot better about myself now and am able to enjoy being naked around him more. i know your not fat but if you are uncomfortable with your body then why not try to do somethinh about it. you and your boyfriend could try working out together. just give it a go after a while you will become alot more comfortable and be able to have alot more fun and be happy together X GOOD LUCK X
2006-09-08 01:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by sensual 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody has a barbie body. Keep that in mind.
Besides, he's a man and probably has seen his share of different types of bodies in porn.
The important thing is he loves you. You rock his world more than any barbie doll ever could. That's really something to be proud of. :)
Consummate that with some serious love making. Let yourself go and show him how much you love and trust him. he will love you even more for it.
2006-09-08 01:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young. It is natural to feel self-conscious about your body, especially when you are younger. Believe your boyfriend if he says he thinks you're beautiful. Little by little as you make love more often, you will become more comfortable with showing your body. You will come to enjoy it. But if you are this fearful, maybe you should wait a while longer to have sex. Good luck.
2006-09-08 01:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by nido_tr3s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe him that you're beautiful inside and out, especially when you know that he truly loves you. Don't worry, he won't think about your body being imperfect, he will only concentrate on you, that the girl he loves most is willing to be with him. Have confidence in yourself.
If you still feel uncomfortable, then don't rush immediately into nudity, start slowly, and make sure he knows what you're worried about. Take care. =)
2006-09-08 03:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by gummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are comfortable showing him your body. If he loves you as much as described then he will respect that and wait until you are ready. Don't do anything you are uncomfortable doing because if you both have sex and you are still uncomfortable with showing him your body then the time you both would have shared wouldn't be to its full potential, because you will feel like it was to early and may end up feeling like you are still uncomfortable in your skin and may even end up feeling like you don't want anybody to touch you even your boyfriend. So tell him that you are uncomfortable/scared to she him your body and that you want to wait until you know you aren't scared. Once you get over this stepping stone and you both do have sex then the experience will be more memoriable. Hope this helps.
2006-09-08 01:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real men don't want their woman to look like barbie!
He cares for you( & short of a little willie in your pants- hehe!), he will see you for exactly how beautiful you are.
Most of us doubt our bodies, because since we were smaller the media has shown us that being a size 1 with size DD's is what is expected.
Well honey, its not, our men love us for our curves just as much as our hearts!
2006-09-08 01:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust you're boyfriend. Unlike most women men know what they want, so if he tells you you're beautiful then you are in the only way that matters. Just let loose and show him what you've got, I seriously doubt he'll be disappointed and is probably wondering whether he'll disappoint you.
2006-09-08 01:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by yasiru89 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He loves you. Hes not going to measure your body against other womens in the throes of passion. I would wear your sexiest bra and panties and kiss and lick him so passionately that he knows hes got a unique woman who loves him and wants him as bad as he wants you. Everybody has insecurities but you need to just look beyond them and show him what hes got to look forward to through foreplay.
2006-09-08 02:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Johnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only when you're more confident of yourself and your body would your confidence ooze out and maybe then that would be the right time :D
2006-09-08 01:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by awkwardsmile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn off the lights. Candles can do wonders. Relax.
2006-09-08 01:44:46 · answer #11 · answered by andywho2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋