Im in a long distance relationship. We are just one city apart, a 2 hrs drive. We have this unsolve argument, that happened 3 days ago. I started it, im complaining about his text message as if his putting me down. He said, maybe you're most studious in class, when i said i got a high score in the exam. For me, as if he's saying i was trying hard to get it. That day i was celebrating because i got the highest score in our examination. Now i realize i should not think that way. . and then we have no communication since yesterday. I need you comments please..
2006-09-08 01:38:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's no special formula - you just have to say you're sorry and mean it..best is to be honest 'I over reacted'..'I was silly'..'sorry for being such a *****'..'I know I made an *** of myself', whatever it takes..if he loves you, he'll understand and forget about it..but just remember to keep it cool next time and think about how and what (exactly) he's saying before you react..
2006-09-08 01:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good job. He was complimenting you, and you took it as an insult.
Your spelling and grammar are atrocious, so when someone says you are studious, take it as a compliment... and you SHOULD try hard in school... there is nothing wrong with wanting to get the most out of your education.
2006-09-08 08:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you have to apologise for? You got the highest score, congratulations. You should be proud of yourself and your other half should have been happy for you not putting you down.
Sounds to me like he needs to pull his head out of his ar$e and apologise to you. If I didn't know better, I'd say he was a bit jealous of how smart you are.
2006-09-08 08:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be proud of what you get in class... some times text messages get confused.. i know that is the only way me and my friends get into any kind of argument is when the text messaging gets taken the wrong way. try not to read into them too much. some times if you analyze them too much, they get confusing... if you think he is making fun of you, i would just ignore it, and talk about it later on the phone, calmly... do not start accusing him cause he might take offense to it and might get defensive and it will all go down hill from there...
2006-09-08 08:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by crystal s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to him... make the move to see him personally so nthat you could sove the problem... its just two jours you know.
for me it very hard to swallow your pride esp if the argument was your fault... but when you will talk things over it will just be solved in no time...
try to reach out to him... no communication could mean something, he might be thinking that you are already bored with his company and just making excuse so will quarrel and lead to break up or many other things...
talk to him as soon as posible if you dont want that he wil he be lose...
you'll regret it...
2006-09-08 08:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by carendawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drive the 2 hours and spend an evening together... don't talk about the argument, just smile, cuddle, and hug.....
and whatever else works... ;)
2006-09-08 08:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by Andy FF1,2,CrTr,4,5,6,7,8,9,10 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what you were fighting about. You should apologize to him, when he has time to talk to you. If you have been together a long time, and he already loves you, then he still does. Apologize, make it right. Good luck.
2006-09-08 08:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give both of yourselfs time!! Don't call him. Let's see what happens. have you thought, he might have a girl in the town where he lives? Just give both of you time. Ans wait to see what happens!!
2006-09-08 08:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by alfonso 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is only one thing to do... get up and take a drive and go see him or ask him NICELY to come see you and discuss your issues in a calm way, don't start a fight don't worry everything will be alright.
Kristen
2006-09-08 08:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by kristen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
studious, to me means you try the hardest,but that`s a compliment-you`re weird
2006-09-08 08:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋