Im in a long distance relationship. We are just one city apart, a 2 hrs drive. We have this unsolve argument, that happened 3 days ago. I started it, im complaining about his text message as if his putting me down. He said, maybe you're most studious in class, when i said i got a high score in the exam. For me, as if he's saying i was trying hard to get it. That day i was celebrating because i got the highest score in our examination. Now i realize i should not think that way. . and then we have no communication since yesterday. I need you comments please..
2006-09-08 01:36:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, its called an apology ... Apologize for making too much out of it but ask him to share your joy as you would celebrate his accomplishments when he makes them. keep in mind that a dating relationship is not a competition ... also, dont be so sensitive, the way i interpret his message is that he was trying to be funny and at the same time cautioning you not to get a swelled head over it .. one thing you have to keep in mind with text messaging is that it will always be interpreted by inference, not implication ... its how you read it, not necessarily how it was said ... so, apologize for flying off the handle and admit you might have been too sensitive ... good luck
2006-09-08 01:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quick and Responsive, not Silent and Deadly!
I would get in touch with him and let him know that you either mis-interpreted him or over-reacted. It's hard to have your feet on the ground, especially after what you achieved by getting the highest score! Oh, by the way... CONGRATS!
Avoid dwelling on it. Deal with it right away and move on. I'm sure you both have alot more to chat about, especially since you haven't talked in 3 days.
Let the 2 hour drive be your separation, not a unsolved argument! Hang in there kid!
2006-09-08 08:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not quite understanding what happened here. He called you studious and you're annoyed at that? He probably meant it as a compliment. Maybe just send a text message that pretends this didn't happen and try to just pick up and go on from here.
2006-09-08 08:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
didnt he tell u how smart u r, or give u any compliments?
but anyway, maybe he dont mean to hurt u n u are ryt not to think that way, if u want to get to him first then just dial his number or send him a msg or email him, if it makes u feel down not having any communication with him then there is no point punishing ur self,ryt..
just think that ur giving urself a favor besides this issue is so petty for u to stop talking with each other.
good luck!!
2006-09-08 08:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were wrong. Just tell him you were wrong and that you are sorry. Move on and don't be so petty about this. There are more important things in life to fight about. This is NOT one of them. Also being far apart can make the resentment grow worse.
2006-09-08 08:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the long distance thing doesn't work anyway.. when far apart people do crazy things, and if that friend of yours keeps putting you down, he doesn't deserve you period.
2006-09-08 08:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by Bram A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got something else for you to swallow :)
2006-09-08 08:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋