My girlfriend and I had sex. She is on birth controll and we used a condom. But she thinks her fingernail may have gotten caught on the condom when we were having sex. I dont think anything tore but she is really stressed. And shes not suppose to start her period for another 2 weeks. And suggestions?
2006-09-08 01:24:08 · 17 answers · asked by JD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's actually harder to get pregnant than people think. There are only 2-3 days a month that a woman can actually get pregnant. If your girlfriend is on the pill and takes it consistently and on time each day, then she is probably not pregnant even if it happened on the 2-3 days of the month that she could get pregnant. Good luck!
2006-09-08 01:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by nido_tr3s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is taking/using a method of birth control as directed then there is probably nothing to worry about unless it is an unreliable method. Unless there is some sort of after sex birth control that would still work, you just have to wait it out and trust that if she became pregnant you would have the support and ability to handle it in the best way possible for everyone involved. If she doesn't like the unknown/worry feelings in situations like this, then she should abstain from having sex.
2006-09-08 08:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by bluejasmine3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um tell her to relax.
Go buy a home pregnancy test. There are new ones that detect as soon as after a week.
If shes on B.C. she's just being paranoid. Unless of course she really isn't on B.C. and was lying to you. Otherwise she really shouldn't/wouldn't be that worried.
Of course she could also think you're not faithful and she may get an STD from you. Really, it sounds like there is something not right for her to be freaking out.
B.C. taken correctly + condom is pretty safe, even if one may have failed.
2006-09-08 08:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to calm down, birth control is 98% effective when taken correctly, so wearing a condom is almost pointless. But if you are worried you could go to the doctor for the morning after pill, but since she is on birth control there is a chance the doctor won't give it to her.
2006-09-08 08:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and take a deep breath. Wait for another couple of weeks and see if her period comes on. If it does then she isn't pregnant but if it doesn't then go out and buy a pregnancy test and use it. If it says positive schedule a doctors appointment to be positive about the results. But for right now just relax and take each day with one foot in front of the other. So just relax and breath for the next couple of weeks. Its to early to tell.
2006-09-08 08:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy the pregnancy test kit. Check routinely i.e. 2- 3 times a week. The moment you get +(ve) indication, get a second opinion from the nearest gynaecologist. Then, you may have to make up your mind wether to have the child or not if the doctor confirmed she is pregnant.
2006-09-08 08:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by jemmie_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her period to come...if it comes she still might be pregnant. Best bet is to go to a local store and buy 2 pregnancy tests...2 just to make sure...if still uncertain..see a doctor and have her blood tested there. Hope that helps...God bless
2006-09-08 08:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by nightskystar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your on double birth control dude. i wouldnt worry about it. i just had sex a few days ago and the condom broke and i had finished - - shes not pregnant. chill.
2006-09-08 08:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by Brendan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. She's on birth control, so the likelihood is very slim. Chill out.
2006-09-08 08:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her not to stress just yet wait until she misses her period
then stress out. also most condoms have spermicide that kills the sperm tell her that and see if that relaxes her some
2006-09-08 08:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by missthang_xoxo_82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋