It's been two months now after me and my ex girlfriend broke up after a five year reslaiotnship and I can't stop thinking about her. I have not made contact with her after the breakup. How long does the pain last and when will I stop thinking about her? This sucks
2006-09-08 01:15:31 · 11 answers · asked by lionsfourme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats is what we call, LOVE.
You are in love buddy, congrats, Just tell her how much you love her. Same was the case with me, i delayed, and now i am alone, Could not found her. :-(
2006-09-08 01:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can last for a very long time especially if you still go to the same places and enjoy the same activities you did with her. It helps to find some other activities or new group of friends and get a fresh start. You are in mourning and this is very normal. It will eventually pass.
2006-09-08 01:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its been a year since my girlfriend of 3 years left me and I'm just starting to go out with other people for more than just sex but i still think of her at least once a day but the pain is finally going away
2006-09-08 01:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will go away slowly but it may not go away completely.
Give yourself time to grieve the loss and eventually you will move on.
I grieved the loss of a boyfriend for three years and it still hurts sometimes to think about it, but that's just life. It doesn't take away from the wonderful man I have in my life now.
2006-09-08 01:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time line for healing. It will take you time to get over her. But don't rush things, otherwise you won't be able to truly get over her. Believe me, things do get easier as time goes by. Its best that you haven't had contact with her. If you did, it would take you that much longer to get over her. I would know, it took me three years to get over my ex-husband cuz he was constantly in my life (we share two kids). Hang in there. I promise the day will come when the pain doesn't hurt as bad.
2006-09-08 01:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say me or weed, i comprehend how stressful dealing with a stoner buddy/bf could properly be perhaps you may enable him to smoke yet in user-friendly terms a small quantity by way of fact if he's made provide it up altogether he ought to do it greater at the back of your decrease back, its a perplexing subject to provide up,its probably what he falls on whilst he desires it, as long as he does it sparsely and doesnt attempt something greater stable he could be ok, as long as he doesnt turn decrease back right into a pot head it doesnt rely if he has one or 2 each week yet thats it, and honey the ruin subject wont help, me and an ex did that and he went off with somebody else and mentioned yeah yet we are on a ruin, its no longer wholesome for a dating if theres matters some months aside wont variety them out, you eithe interior the dating to artwork stuff out and love one yet another or your out, in case you want to assert go away and il date you whilst college starts off in case you provide up weed is perhaps going to make him revolt or slightly have detrimental emotions in direction of you
2017-01-05 04:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will last as long as you want it to last. You have to get out there and have fun again. enjoy being a bachelor again.
2006-09-08 01:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will never truly go away. take up sports or somethin to get your mind off of her or try your absolute damnedest to get her back
2006-09-08 01:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by jon k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enotalone.com is a great website to go & visit.
It's all about relationships & breaking up,ect....
The people are very supportive & kind.
2006-09-08 01:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to her. and tell her how u feel. then tell her u can just be friends.
2006-09-08 01:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet thang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋