What should I do? When I try to talk about my feelings with my boyfreind he tells me we should break up. Anytime I am upset. I just want to work on things. Does her really want a way out?
It this a game? I am thinking now that this is an emotional pain game. I had another boyfriend that did this to me and he was shocked and angry when I told him up on it one day. What should I do?
Is he trying to get his way or does he really want out?
2006-09-08 01:14:11 · 25 answers · asked by adobeprincess 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do yourself a favor. Let him have is way and BREAK UP WITH HIM. You don't deserve this kind of "Control" tactic. Show him who the better person is. If your partner refuses to have communication then it's a lost cause already.
2006-09-08 01:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by Vida 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not a very mature response. I think he really just doesn't want to talk about your feelings, and feels very important. He knows how you react when he says he wants to break up, so he keeps saying it.
Decide if you can live without talking about your feelings or if you are ready to tell him this: "I don't like you bringing this to the brink on every little issue. It makes me feel nervous, and that's not good for you, because you spend a lot of time with me. Talking about feelings is going to be a part of any relationship you have with any girl, even if you break up with me."
2006-09-08 08:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are insecure and think you need a boyfriend to be someone. If he threats to break up with you next time say OK. bye, don't let the door hit you on the way out. He has learned how to control you. He uses the threats to get what he wants because he knows it will work. DUMP HIM
2006-09-08 08:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by passionparties_by_suzanne 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
He is not mature enough to deal with "feelings". He is just wanting the fun side of a relationship. Get out and find someone who is willing to deal with reality.
2006-09-08 08:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by bluejasmine3 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump his sorry a**!!! That's awful. He's just playing you and you're letting him! By the sound of it he doesn't even really like you. and if he does he has a poor way of showing it. Don't let him walk all over you.
2006-09-08 08:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mickie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Breakup with him. He sounds like a big baby. Ask yourself, Do you want a Man or a Kid? Think about it.
2006-09-08 09:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by what attitude? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's using the 'break up' line to get out of talking things out. and i'm sure that hurts you alot. Maybe he doesn't like confrontations, or maybe he does want out...... you need to find out....
2006-09-08 08:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by Purrr 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many guys don't like to talk about relationships problems,
If they do it is best if you can bring only one issue at the times
The last thing they need is to hear a mate vent, somehow they get overwhelm and over-react
2006-09-08 08:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by ??Dani??? 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I don't know about what Ur feeling with him but i think he is just playing u........
If u have the guts to break with him go on
2006-09-08 08:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yep, he's a game player. He wants to break up but he wants it to be you who does the breaking up.
Give him what he wants and find someone else who will care about you for you.
2006-09-08 08:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋