What are the things she will do to hint at a more than friends relationship? We have been friends for years, but we have gotten much closer in the last four months than we have ever been!
2006-09-08 01:03:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you've gotten much closer in the last few months, then it's very likely that she's interested.
My advice? The next time she starts flirting, just flat-out ask her: "Are you just flirting, or are you interested in something more serious?" She'll give you a straight answer, and it'll tell you what you need to know.
2006-09-08 01:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have been friends for years then you should just ask her. Asking will NOT ruin a solid friendship and it gives her the opportunity to say how she really feels. It's important that you get it out in the open because it will strain your friendship if it is never addressed. Just let her know that you've REALLY enjoyed getting to know her so much better over these last several months, it's been a blast and that you like spending time with her now even more than you did before! Tell her that you think she's awesome as a friend, but that you just want to let her know that if she's ever interested in anything more than just friends, you'd be stoked to give it a try! Make sure you also give her an "out" too in case it gets really uncomfortable...Say Even if you don't see me that way, that's fine I just wanted to put it out there to let you know how I feel & how great I think you are...I'd be happy to have you as more than a friend but, I am also really happy to be a friend as I've been all along. Good luck with her, I hope it works out for you. I'm sure she will, at the least, appreciate your honesty!
2006-09-08 01:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by MonsterMash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's get something straight: There's a big difference between being friendly and flirtatious. You've got to observe this girl's behavior carefully to see if she truly is engaging in the latter behavior. After all, you don't want to wag your finger unnecessarily. It's all about body language. Her exterior is a walking canvas for what's happening in her interior. The next time she approaches you, make it a point to interpret her mannerisms. Don't just take them at face value.
Is she standing a tad too close? Is she playfully touching you? Is she teasing you with her words? Is she batting her eyelashes at you? If you've said bingo, chances are your gut is right. Read: This chick is hitting on you. "Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship never."
2006-09-08 01:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by Stars-Moon-Sun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always, the guys must make the first step!
It sounds sucks, but that's the big rule!
So if you want to go in a relationship, ask her out like a date!
Continue those dates and as the time comes right for you two (and you will know that) just ask her!
Tell her that you want to be with her.
2006-09-08 01:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no clear answer. Women are often too subtle for men to read. She could be flirting with you, or she could think she's just being friendly. If you're interested in her, then at some point you just have to risk rejection and ask her for a date.
2006-09-08 01:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by nospamcwt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are such emotional creatures. Be sure to analyze the whole situation.. And make sure you want to make a friend out to be more than a" friend"... Because once it becomes intimate it's know longer just friends and can ruin everything..
2006-09-08 01:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by The'Truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl wants to go in another relationship more than friendship, the girl will do anything just to call your attention so that you will be able to recognize...The girl will also have the courage to be with you always...Maybe she willtry to flirt with you sometimes....If ever someone flirted with you, maybe you should give her a chance...It depends on your decision....That's just my advice...
2006-09-08 01:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she gets in your personal space and touches you periodically she is interested. If she is not getting close, she may just want a friend.
2006-09-08 01:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am telling you from experience. Just ask her now. Don't wait......
2006-09-08 01:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by N e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will tell and believe me things happen naturally!
2006-09-08 01:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋