I mean i seriously have trouble with this. My friends r like "i was flirting with him" and when i ask them about guys i like they say be urself and try flirting but i just talk to the guy like he's a friend. I have actually watched my friend when they are supposedly flirting and they just are acting shy and not speaking/staring at their feet. It works for them but i am too confident to fake being shy. How do you flirt and how do you know if the guy is flirting or just talking?
2006-09-08 00:32:57 · 10 answers · asked by mcr_fan_4evr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cool i've got heaps of tips on how to flirt now but emphasis on how do u know if the guy is flirting/interested. i cant tell if guys r interested or just social
2006-09-08 00:44:00 · update #1
If I reach for your hand, will you hold it? If I hold out my arms, will you hug me? If I go for your lips, will you kiss me? If I capture your heart, will you luv me?
2006-09-08 00:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by harry d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirting can be difficult for a lot of people. But, on some level it does come naturally. Flirting is the by-product of letting someone know you're into them without actually saying tht directly, flattery, and a slight indifference to the outcome of your interaction to them.
So flirting with someone is generally not something that you can intentionally do successfully. It's something that will come about naturally once you start doing the three things mentioned above. Note that you want to be presented in your best possible state if you intend on attracting members of the sex you are interested in. You need to show genuine interest in them, even if your interest isn't that genuine, but really just a curiosity. You need to be able to flatter them without being too deliberate, and you need to let them know (if only through body language) that you are baiting them with yourself, but that on some level, you are unatainable. Both men and women want what they can't have. Nobody wants to ride the village bike. So don't be one. Be unique and be unatainable (until you are at a point where you are willing to be attained). Good luck with your flirtation.
You may want to try your new skills out with people you don't know and will never see again before you lay it on thick with whomever you truly are intersted in.
2006-09-08 00:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by largegrasseatingmonster 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirting and being shy are 2 different things. You can flirt with someone by giving them personal compliments, making suggestions and so on.
2006-09-08 00:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by mk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I kinda flirt often. First off, you need to make eye contact with the guy/girl. Second, just be yourself. Third, when you make eye contact, always smile at their direction. Fourth, try to make compliments. They'll smile back at you if you do. Last, treat the person with respect like you treat your friends.
2006-09-08 15:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if a girl was coming up and flirting with me i woul djust want her to be herself.. prolly make me laugh.. ask me if im dating anyone at the moment and after you feel comfortable hitn around about the movies and if hes diggin you im sure he will ask you on a second date.
2006-09-08 00:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
complement a guy
and dont be shy
tell him ur good lookng and stuff
and expect the same
2006-09-08 00:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Omar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't act as if you're shy or you'll end up being shy
2006-09-08 00:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remain the way u are...nothing special bout being a flirt...its slutty
2006-09-08 00:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i just say how good they look.
2006-09-08 00:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by afrprince77 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get yahoo messenger ......
2006-09-08 00:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by Reazo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋