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I love this girl that lives 600 miles away. We were best friends as kids and I moved away and have not seen her in 10 years. We recently found each other and are head over heals for each other. I am visiting in a week and have 6 interviews set up there already. My plan is to find a job and stay with her. What are your opinions? I am 19 years old and have nothing keeping me where I am.

2006-09-08 00:03:10 · 10 answers · asked by wil 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

Very cool. I'd go.

What I would still ask myself is the following question (not the most fun question, but I would go through the exercise anyway). If she were LOCAL, would I move in with her right away, or would I further develop the relationship before taking that step?

If there is a sense that things would still be developing, I'd seriously have to visit the idea of getting my own place in the new city. In other words, separate the relationship from the move.

Tell her that you do not want to put too much pressure on an wonderful relationship when there is already going to be incredible pressure and difficulty on every other part of your life (new job, new pad, new everything, and everybody else in your life except her). You will have the truth on your side, and if she's as great as I sense she is, she'll see right away how smart and mature you are.

2006-09-08 00:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by EXPO 3 · 0 0

If you love her, six hundred miles should not stand in the way. I am not sure I would "stay" with her. Do you mean live with her unmarried? The only advantage to that is that you will get to know her very well and can decide if you still love her. I fell in love with a man and then we moved in together. Wow......learned so much......and it wasn't pretty. Thank goodness I did before it was too late.......Hey, but it could turn out great.........I hope it does........and there is nothing keeping you where you are......go for it

2006-09-08 07:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by chattykatty 1 · 0 0

Love will do strange things to a person. If you both love each other then I see no problem. Look at it this way, If things dont work out then what are you going to do? Are you staying there or moving back? But then again what if they work out? You will never know unless you try. Go for it bro, I hope you both the best. I beleive it will work as long as you both want it. Grab her up before someone else does. Good luck,

2006-09-08 07:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0 0

See how it goes first and if you like your
job and the place you live. If you two love
one another you could make it,but take
your time and get to know each other again,
and have fun enjoying one another without
making too many quick plans or demands on
each other. Let things happen naturally if you
can.

2006-09-08 07:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0 0

I think that you should go for it. If you don't, you may regret it for the rest of your life. Maybe you two do have a future together but it's up to your decision.
I know this sounds a little old but, just follow your heart and go wherever it takes you.

2006-09-08 08:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Faust 5 · 0 0

Remember, people do change, A bit of advice, First do not move in with her,. it can **** up thing, get your own place first, and work from there. you will know forsure in about 6 months. if it is really love or just lust.

2006-09-08 07:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0 0

if you love each other and she means that much to you go for it you only live once dont let the love of your life slip through your fingers i wish you both long life and happiness

2006-09-08 07:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by angel 36 6 · 0 0

you are too young to marry.. You gotta give some time to your self before you think of all this stuff.. First settle in life and then if your love is true then certainly she is your...

2006-09-08 07:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by SecretHorn 2 · 0 0

first try to stand in ur feet and then go for her

2006-09-08 07:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by silver 3 · 0 0

oh god why delay move on immediately.

2006-09-08 07:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0 0

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