I was hospitalized for 2 years for anorexia in a program for another year and now ive been out for nearly 2yrs I havent fully recovered and I now have developed bulima as well.
I want to kill myself everyday and my family are awful to me and say harsh things they dont know what its like im 20yrs I should be moved out I just had been sick for so long im scared to move out I still dont want to live I dont know what to do.
2006-09-08 00:01:20 · 11 answers · asked by blkjacky 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Your family just don't understand or are scared. Don't you dare think of hurting yourself, you may have a problem but you are still a person who has friends and people who care.
There are counsellors you can talk to. Try your doctor he/she may be able to recommend someone to talk to.
None of us are perfect, we are all human after all :-) And we certainly all have our moments of dis spare. I've spoken to a councillor for other problems and they really help but you may have to talk to a few to find one your comfortable with. I was lucky and liked the first one I dealt with but it did take three or four sessions to really relax and open up. It can be easier to talk to a stranger that family.
I've actually disowned my family!!!! Just couldn't take the stress and constant guilt trips so I can relate to you a little bit there....keep talking to people other than your family and if you really need to move out there will be some sort of group who will be able to assist.
I'm alway up for a chat so drop me a line anytime you like.
I got told the following when I was having a hard time in my thirtys..."Take care of yourself, your the most important person in your life you have to be happy with yourself don't live your life for other people and what they expect of you"......most important thing I was ever told, wish I'd been told it when I was a teenager! Sigh.....better late than never tho!! :-)
So...hope I've been a little help. Keep talking and please don't take what your family says to heart.
Regards,
Red
2006-09-08 00:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by red260z 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you want to kill your self everyday then I say don't move out. You need people around you who care about you. I am no expert but i would say your eating problem is a way you are trying to kill your self. If your family can't help then DO be adult enough to seek help from other sources on your own. Try to find a Crisis Line for when your feeling bad ( this isn't one). Make a plan on what you are going to do instead of the problem and do that.
Kind of like quiting smoking and wanting a cigarette so when you get the craving you distract yourself with some other reward ( a healthy one). get your head healthy and your body will follow. Take care
2006-09-08 00:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by Red 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not run away. Fight against them not physically, by showing them that your are not sick. Just ignore them. Do some exercise, take early morning one fresh lime cut and pour the juice into one tumbler full of water and gulp it down as the first drink of the morning do not add any sugar or salt just plain water is good. Try eating whatever you feel like ignore the routine food and go for variety and taste. Doing Yoga can help both physically and mentally. Just do not get fed up with living the days will change and you can take a revenge on all the people teasing you.
2006-09-08 00:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your first thing you need to do is get psychological help for your eating disorder. The next thing you need to do is get away from those who affect you negatively. You need to be around friends that will encourage you to get better. You family may think that treating you so poorly will encourage you to stop but in all reality it makes your disorder worse. Please find some help before it is too late.
2006-09-08 00:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by passionparties_by_suzanne 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hang in there. don't kill yourself, your life is to special to waste like that. just get away from your family, they're not good for you if they make you feel that way. i think you need to seek some more help. i wish you the best of luck and hope you get well soon.
2006-09-08 00:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by jo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I to am bulimic, It takes daily work on yourself to be in recovery, and negative people makes you take the focus off yourself and on to them.
The advice I have always been given is:
SAVE YOURSELF!
When you are healthy you can deal with other people, right now you are the most important one
Good Luck!!
2006-09-08 00:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by si 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are they aware how you feel about it? Have a seriouse discussion with your family and ask them to stop, If they continue then yes you should move out
2006-09-08 00:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by zeem3333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cut the ties with your family.. obviously they care nothing for you and are only bringing you down.. Get healthy for you hun and don't look back! YOU can do it!I wish you the best.
2006-09-08 00:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by waiting4myredemption 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 21:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by derival 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family sucks join mine we will treat you right !!!
2006-09-08 00:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by lopezjl137 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋