harsh language, physically tortures his sisters and friends
2006-09-07 23:50:00 · 20 answers · asked by naina 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You need to take your son to the hospital right now.. do not wait.. That spells serious issues.. He needs help and possibly meds.. Good luck
2006-09-07 23:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by waiting4myredemption 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what his age you need to get this taken care of. If he is a minor then please have him evaluated by a qualified mental health expert, preferably a psychiatrist of clinical psychologist. There are a variety reasons for these things that could be part of a mental illness and then there are also reasons that don't necessarily mean he has one. Only a qualified professional can help figure out what he is experiencing. Bipolar Disorder, Opositional Defiant Disorder, and Conduct disorder all come to mind.
If he's not still a minor then still try to urge him to get help or if he becomes violent you may need to make him leave or to get the authorities to intervene.
You don't specify 'torture'. If he's just calling them names that's not nice but it's not unusual either. If he's physically hurting himself, others, or animals or even threatening it please get him help immediately. If he truly becomes a danger and you can't get him in to a doctor take him the emergency room.
2006-09-08 21:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kissoblivion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son has problems with his self esteem, that's why he's channelling his negative feelings towards his sisters and friends. Have a good talk with him, find out why he's harbouring so much negative emotions. Perhaps he's bullied in school? Is he facing some form of stress in school or at home? It's even harder for a boy to open up so you need more patience when you get him to open up.
You might want to monitor the type of entertainment he's engaged in. Is he watching too many violent movies? Is he mixing with undesirable company?
You need to address your son's issues immediately before his behaviour develops into personality disorder and affects his social life.
2006-09-08 06:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants some attention and he gets it when he is doing bad stuff like this. Physically torturing his sister could be turning into something very serious and he should be observed in a mental hospital for a while.
2006-09-08 06:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello sir, you have not mentioned the age of your pampered son !
Whatever it is, if he is young and less than 12 years, maybe can be counselled and corrected at home level by parents.
If otherwise, an early advise from a psychologist may be taken. If the son is a child and you feel that he cannot be tackled by you, paediatric psychologists are also available.
Contact you nearest big hospital in the city.
Nowadays almost all hospitals have psychiatrists and psychologists.
2006-09-08 18:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by suresh k 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may be a case of clinical narcissism. This happens many times to intelligent/successful people. Since this person also engages in physical abuse, it's important that you take him to a professional counsellor. There's nothing to panic however. You can read more about this at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder
2006-09-08 07:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by BalaSundaraRaman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to take him to the Doctor also u did say how old is he
depends of the age and also you can punish not to see tV or
other things that he likes Principal thing have to take him to the hospital
2006-09-08 07:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by PICK - INDIA - PORTUGAL LISBON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he has alot of anger built up in him and is ver y frustrated withhimself. he needs psychological help to work thru these issues asap. because he's going to really blow up on someone physically and wind up hurting them or worse and then the legal system will step in. get him to the nearest mental health center/psy center asap if he is of age have him baker acted. in the meantime if he should get physical i would call the police as he could hurt someone/himself god bless
2006-09-08 06:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check his diet, make sure he is eating well balanced foods. Sometimes reactions of this sort can come from poor nutrition. Is he sleeping enough at night, you might want to adjust his schedule. He also sounds very stong willed, you need to take control of the situation and not let him control you and your household.
2006-09-08 06:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by CLEMVIER 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this will happen becaz he might a more love on that persons, but u need to tell him how to show the love. when he speak like that don't get angry just talk in a cool manner & make him that he win;t do it again
2006-09-08 06:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by MM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋