I was with her for over 3 years and we have had our share of problems yet found someway to get over them. Something tells me that she has moved on and is scared to tell me maybe she has found another guy. Well any advice you can give me might help me put my pain to rest.
2006-09-07 22:50:13 · 12 answers · asked by Lost Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the sounds of it u love her very much so if u really love her ull b happy dat shes happy,even if its with someone esle its cool u will find ur Mrs right just give ur heart some time for now try to do stuff like ,movies? or clubbing ? just to get ur mind of her..
2006-09-07 22:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by jenn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let time heal the pain. It's not easy to break a routine you've made with her, to find something to fill the emptiness. But you will get over it if you will stop thinking about her. Find a hobby, call your friends. She's not the only girl in the world. For all you know, this could be the beginning of something wonderful.
It would be great if you could confront her, tell her that it is alright to move on. Be the matured one to make sure you end the relationship well, wish her well and don't hold any grudges. If you want, you could tell her how you truly feel, that you still care but want also to move on. She will respect you for it and infact maybe help you mend your broken heart, like hook u up with her sister.
2006-09-07 23:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by shuddupfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's gonna have to be matture enough to come to you and tell you what she is feeling and if she wants to pursue with another guy! If she can't do this them you should say Goodbye and get on with your life! If she does do this, your heart will still feel broken but if she comes to you and tells you that she wants a different guy in her life then, you have to accept that and still try to move on!
If it was meant to be, she will return to thee!
I know thats not how that lines goes but it means something like that!
Best of luck! Get well!
2006-09-07 22:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time u let go dude.
i was in ur girls shoes once. found another guy that i wanted to be with but i was scared to tell my ex-boyfren cause i was scared to hurt him coz like u, we both had our great moments together. n our relationship also had alot of problems which we managed to get over with together.
but there comes a point in time when one of u would like to move on. but u wana move on without hurting the other party though u know u are no longer are together.
for myself n him, we decided to move apart from each other. eventually now we didnt even contact each other. he was single for almost 2 years before he found another girl that he liked.
my advice to u is to give urself time. i know u miss her alot. but learn to let go dude. it's hard but u know it's not meant to be already.
good luck n take care. :)
2006-09-07 23:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by keira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and tell her that u enjoyed ur time together and wish her all the best then say bb. if she really has moved on she will put down the phone, if she is not with another guy and still likes u she will ask u what u mean
2006-09-07 22:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every disappointment is a blessing in disguise. The water that is meant for you to drink will never flow past you. God has a way of warding off danger and anguish from us, but we term it disappointment. Your own perfect match will soon appear, and will not leave, come what may.
2006-09-07 23:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by peaceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is hard at first if you lvoe the person, if they didnt love you then she was a slime bucket. it gets easier. if she didnt want to be with you and found someone else, then she just stole your heart and threw it in a blender
2006-09-07 22:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by dark^wishy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I found heaps of alcohol,hours sitting at this computer answering dumb Q's & talking to myself helped me.
2006-09-08 01:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by aussie fallen angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i gueess it take time. but with god help nothing is impossible.
2006-09-07 23:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by shaffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant help sorry any ways thanks 4 d 2 points.
2006-09-07 22:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋