How to defeat envy and so... did irt happened to you...were you affected by similar problem....
2006-09-07 22:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by freemind ci 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
ignore them.
By not wanting to acknowledge your good qualities, they are actually acknowledging it with their jealousy.
That's all.
Just wait and be humble about it, they'll come around.
They are probably just threatened by your talent.
2006-09-07 22:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by the nothing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person that must recognize your qualities is you. If people don't around you, that is because they are reflecting what you feel deep inside.People are mirrors.When you actually want others to do so ,that is the proof right there that you need approbation from others in order to really feel confident about yourself.
2006-09-07 22:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sherluck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When others don't recognize you here is some advice........ Move on.....
You defent envy by believing in yourself and realizing there will always be people with more than you and people who have less than you
2006-09-07 22:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Envy is opposed to generosity so try being generous and loving toward those who you envy, by doing this your envy will gradually subside.
2006-09-07 22:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by carl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was hated for most of my childhood by other children and the occasional adult.. and really thought there was something wrong with me
i grew up with a complex and thought i was never good enough
it is only recently i have realised , that i was a good person , i was intelligent and bright , i was happy ...
what was there not to love ?
so in knowing this , i can only imagine that people don't like others with good qualities
what i have done though is , instead of trying to prove myself to those who wished to see otherwise ... i just prove it to myself .. how wonderful i am
i matter .. my opinion of me matters
if people don't like it or like me .. it is their loss
2006-09-07 22:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Peace 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usually ignore them! it makes no sense to let them have power over your emotions!
2006-09-07 22:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by Black Betty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually they do, but they are too jealous to admit it.
2006-09-07 22:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by Ttraveller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do as the warthog does and you will be fine.
2006-09-07 22:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just know they are meant for you to notice, just smile.
2006-09-07 22:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get frustrated/ignore them. what else can you do?
2006-09-07 22:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by kittens 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋