2006-09-07 22:11:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because your are right at this moment the most incredible woman he has ever seen because you say no.Its going to be a big thrill chasing you.He probably thinks he loves you but if you did sleep with him the fantasy might turn to mud because right now thats what you are to him.A fantasy.He probly thinks about you nonstop.Being a man He will try to bed you.You must be so strong because it will be hard your already saying aw look he said he loved me.Love yourself and demand that he treat you with respect but most of all be prepared be strong.
2006-09-07 22:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all try, even if they have to tell a little white lie and say he loves you. Time will tell, and go on your gut feeling. If you do not want to go to bed with someone before marriage, then don't, but do not go on what a horny guy is saying, because, yes, they will say anything to get into your britches, lady. Just say no.
2006-09-07 22:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you don't have sex with someone until marriage does not mean that they don't love you. Love does not equal sex, sex is an action not a feeling yes normally many feelings are involved however it's still only an action. Now a days especially you don't truly even love the people/persons that you sleep with. I got lucky and I love my boyfriend and he loves me as well. You really should give your boyfriend more credit for loving you instead of questioning his motives.
2006-09-07 22:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men confuse lust with love. They think if they can imagine getting a woman into the sack, they are in love with them. If they even talk to you and look you up and down, they are imagining you naked. They can't help themselves. I think it is an innate, inbred thing in men to get rid of as much sperm as possible. Not all men are like this and I am not sure as to how else to answer your question because you don't give any details like how long you have known him or how you feel about him, but I wish you luck.
2006-09-08 00:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥I am single♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long do you know each other, before he proposed that he loves you, by the time he said that, you might know each other then, you know him, if he does or not love you.
and its up to your feelings, that he makes you love him too.
if you think that he is sincere, that he is serious, that you feel the same way too.
before you answer him, you have to ask him, what makes him love you, what are his plans.
then of course you will say your likes too, like marriage before sex. you both have to agree on what relationship you want too.
at least you will know him better, for what kind of guy he is.
then you will make your own perception.
good luck girl!
2006-09-07 22:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by plinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, why do you say that?? maybe he really does loves you... after all he say the word "i love you" eventhough he knows that he will NEVER get in bed with you before marriage.. well, to me thats TRUE LOVE my friend...
2006-09-07 22:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by Faradoves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a stupid question. What has the fact that he says he loves you have to do with going to bed. Have you thought of it that he might really love you. You are assuming that he is doing this to get you to bed. You are judging him very unfairly.
Get your act together.
2006-09-07 22:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the way I see it is we have 2 possibilities here...
1) He really DOES love you.
2) He's an idiot who doesn't want to keep his rocket in his pocket, so he's trying to sway your emotions by making you think he'll always be there.
Here's a little tip: men are walking bags of hormones, and unfortunately they tend to let their hormones run their brain.
2006-09-07 22:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by prayinfroggy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The mere fact that he will wait until marriage for sex means he loves you more than most. Quit bashing him and realize what a gift God gave you.
2006-09-07 22:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's worked for him in the past. Men, like dogs, are trainable and unfortunately his previous girlfriends trained him wrong. It might not be easy to correct his bad behavior now, best find yourself one that is better trained.
2006-09-07 22:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋