We've been together for 1.5 years. At first he called lots, now it's me. And lately he's always hanging out with his friends till late even spending the night and then hanging out with the same friend again for whole day till like 3-4AM. He doesn't call and it frustrates. How do I get him to call me more again?
2006-09-07 21:34:13 · 13 answers · asked by bonbon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a new boyfriend he is seeing someone else
2006-09-07 21:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't! It simply IS!
He's probably not fond of you anymore! When you finally DO get to talk to him just ask him if he has been feeling distant for a reason and ask for his reason. (communication is the key)He's entitled to hang out with his friends...even until late, he can't always talk to you on the phone. Let the poor boy have a life other than giving all his time to you! You aren't the center of the universe ya know!
2006-09-08 04:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he's loosing interest. Or maybe this is the real him and at first he was just trying to impress you or get your attention. You should talk to him about it clearly and deeply. You can't change people, but perhaps his behvior could change to how he was before after you find out the root of the problem by talking with him.
2006-09-08 04:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a girlfriend that felt like you do. I dumped her. Everyone needs time alone, time with friends and then time with their bf/gf/spouse. I am sorry but I am not a phone person. Unless your hair is on fire, I see no reason to call me more than once a day. Don't expect me to call you... again, unless my hair is on fire.
2006-09-08 05:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has made new friends whom he find very intrsting & better to hang out with, why do you feel sad you also don't call often and you too enjoy life if he's smart he'll get what he has done
2006-09-08 04:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by JitendrA Soni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One way might be to become more busy than him or at least pritend that there are more imp things for u .Cancel couple of dates but always let him feel that you want to be with hi m but u r helpless .
May be it can work.
2006-09-08 04:39:16 · answer #6 · answered by ronin d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same problem, dunno also the exact solution but i just keep myself busy and pretend that were okay even i feel that somethings wrong, in some ways i know he still loves me too , maybe its normal to a couple that this time comes. Talk to him in a nice way ask him what is the reason of this changes.
2006-09-08 04:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by babytol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check the way u converse. maybe ur coversation is gettin boring. check the topics u discuss etc. talk to him abt it. it will help
2006-09-08 04:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by ally 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
these are the growing up blues give him some time he will come back to you
2006-09-08 04:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by trishul60 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels like there's nothing much to talk about anymore.
2006-09-08 04:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by keira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋