I LUVED HIM VERY MUCH BUT WHEN I CAME TO KNOW THAT HE IS NOT A STUDIOUS BOY I LOST INTEREST.AS I FEEL STUDIES ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN LIKES AND DISLIKES.IT PROVIDES RESPECT TO THE MAN.WHAT to do? i dont understand.i'm 17 and he is 24.he is adorable but it makes me feel that he is illiterate in front of me.he's doin g a job that also not very good job.he had his studies in arts and not even speax a good english,i juss wanna ignore him .how to do that?if you suggest somethin u can add your xperience also.im a gud studious gal havin attractive luks and gr8 body.
2006-09-07 21:09:21 · 30 answers · asked by DATA_BLANK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok ma.i understand ur feel.but love is presious then education. education is like eating with spoon. with out spoon also we can eat. make him to earn more.ur 17 only.there is almost 7years to ur marriage.make him to earn lumpsome to lead ur life happy after ur mirrage.but don't leave him.pls love is something something different. pls don't leave him da. i 2 17only. so think me as ur friend & accept my feel pls.bye .if u want to talk me more mail me.afterall i am ur friend only know...
2006-09-07 21:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by ramana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowadays studies are important but what is even more important than that is to have culture. And by the way of your thinking, I don't think you have culture. So you must be grateful if that guy is still willing to be with you. If he has a good heart, then that is all that matters. You should have thought about all of this before you started liking him. If you back up now after finding out that he is not that well educated and that he doesn't have good communication skills, then we can't call it love, can we? So it is upto you to decide. If you do leave him, then you really don't have a heart. That's all i gotta say. Well, good luck.hope you will take the right decision..
2006-09-08 05:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by mspentinum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, you sure you know what you're talking about? You don't get to love anyone overnight. How do you know you love him anyway, if you really do? You love a person for what he is, not what grade he finished. So what are you advertising... you don't sound "educated" either, if you can forgive me for saying the truth. Another thing, take time to find out what you really want. I might as well let you know that birds of the same feather flock together --so stick to him, you should be compatible. I hope you live happily ever after.
2006-09-08 04:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Likki888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to see whether intellectually, he's compatible with you. If he is, then you can encourage him to improve himself by attending classes. If he's not keen, then you have your answer.
By the way, at 17, you still have a lot of opportunities for a long life ahead of you. So, why be attached so soon? Go ahead to make as many friends as possible, without committing yourself to anyone first.
This way, you widen your circle and choice. When you reach the stage where you are ready, you will know and have no doubts. As long as you have doubts over anyone, do not commit yourself.
2006-09-08 04:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ..your english isn't to good yourself.. you need to really reread your question and look at your mistakes before you say anything about someone elses....AND what the hell does your body have to do with this girl and father more who cares about your body ,,your only 17 yrs old and what would a 24 yr old want from a 17 yr old UMM NOTHING BUT BOOTY!!!!!!JAIL BAIT
2006-09-08 04:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by sw33t_n_sp1c3y2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, so if you're a studious gal you should really learn to type better lol....But anyways, on to your answer...If you think that money is more important than happiness go for it...I mean if you love him then that's all that should matter, unless his intelligence is SO low you just cannot tolerate it...Don't settle, just be happy
2006-09-08 04:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Don't stop! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, if your spelling is any indication, you're almost as bad probably haha JUST KIDDING! I swear I'm just kiddin! honestly, I'm the same way. The guy I'm interested in HAS to be intelligent. I don't have the same standards, like the job part, but he has to be intelligent. If you're losing interest, I think you have your answers right there. You don't love him if you lost interest, hon. You were crushing on him, and you lost interest. happens to everyone :)
2006-09-08 04:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
we human are not commodities, to take and throw as we like and dislike, the confusion in you is because you have not know what is real love.The Holy Bible Says
LOVE IS
1 Cor 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails
if you need more strength to love your man, call unto JESUS, the fountain of all love, who gave HIMSELF FOR THE SAKE OF YOU AND ME WHO ARE ALL SINNERS.
2006-09-08 04:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by raja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I see your question about how much smarter you are than this guy, and it either makes me think that he can't even tie his own shoes and breathe on his own or you are lying, because you're typing is horrible! Intelligence is what made me fall in love with my fiance...but by the looks of your question, I really find it hard to seriously answer...
2006-09-08 04:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with ur support he could get gain good qualifications...
but a person can not be forced to study...
i can see there being problems with ur future if there is doubts now...
... this is an issue for u now...so really not good signs.
...u r very wise to think about whether it is a good idea to continue with this guy..bcus it would not be fair to lead this guy on and think abt making any future plans.
very sensible thinking....
This can cause serious problems in ur life if u get married...
2006-09-08 17:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by snowflake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋