We have been together for 3 years now and she wanted to take a break. I was not so cool with the whole idea at first and not strong so i called her and all that stuff i shouldn't do. I know the problem was that we didn't really have time alone and we never really went out so she got bored. So now i'm cool and calm and really am glad that she did this. I just want to know if i should try and show her that things are different and that i am or just give her time and let her restore her feelings. I know she still loves me i am just worried if this break wont help and shell forget alltogether how she feels. I guess what i'm asking for is advice on how to handle the situation and anything else that may help me.
2006-09-07 20:40:36 · 15 answers · asked by Cursive 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am hundred percent for your patch up. No human relationship should be treated and dismissed just like that. Every relationship should be cultivated and nurtured so that it blossoms throughout your life. All that you do should be centred around your family. No sacrifice is greater for the happiness of your spouse and children. I am an Asian. We love our families more than anything else in our life.
2006-09-07 20:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you have been on a break for. Maybe you could suggest starting to date again, it is probably things like that that she misses. Speak with her about the idea of maybe going on a date once a week to start with. Pick somewhere neither of you have been to but maybe always wanted to. But you have to make it good, make her feel like she did when you first went out. Don't assume anything just because you know her well enough. Do all the little things that you now take for granted because you's fell into a routine. When you do start to get back together again, you are going to have to give her the space to do her own things as well. And remember, don't pressure her. Good Luck.
2006-09-08 03:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have her space and give her the time she needs. I think that is the best thing you can do. She will come back to you when she is good and ready. Let her start things back up, because if you do, you may rush her. That will upset her or cause this break to end up being much longer than hoped.
2006-09-08 03:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years???? Now you're free and only you know for how long. HAVE FUN!!!!! Get out meet other girls, do stuff. It's you're life. Have fun now because when you get older and you're with the same girl with long-long time you'll regret it pretty soon!!! So have fun and don't you trouble your mind with these thoughts. If after all these you still feeling incomplete go back...
But remember it's your life and you can decide to do whatever you want on your own!!!!
2006-09-08 03:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by zoqafune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
def give her some space. she either wants a break to think things through or she wants a break to sow her wild oats which in that case is not too cool. dont go overboard with calling her but if she isnt calling you at all unless its of convinience to her, i would say that it is obvious she isnt into the relationship as much anymore,
2006-09-08 03:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just keep busy to stop you from thinking about her, do not be unfaithful behind her back as this is the quickest way to loose someone, just relax and watch tv, read, talk to family or spend time with the pets.
2006-09-08 03:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy848 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the best thing you can do Is wait,but If things dont work just remeber this If you love someone let them go..
2006-09-08 03:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lilmisssassy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel you're ready to get back together then illustrate that to her. show her that you are a changed man and that the relationship can be taken to the next level.
2006-09-08 03:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know what you get till you lose it.
Recharge your battery and go in full force. Don't let her go and do whatever it takes to have her back.
2006-09-08 03:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give both urself space...and time to breathe different air......if u wer meant to be together.....u'll cross each other's path and rekindle what is left of what u have... a genuine love
2006-09-08 03:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋