Why does my ex who broke up with me when I moved away to college keep calling me and says he loves me?
It's been over a year and a half since my ex broke up with me because he couldn't handle a long distance relationship (we tried it for 6 months). He has been calling me ever since..at least every two weeks..to say hi and see how I am doing. Whenever we see eachother (like every 3 months or so) we play around but never have sex. Why does he continue to keep in touch? I am seven years younger (i'm 20 and he is 27). And he even tells me that he wants me to have fun and meet other people b/c we are both "living seperate lives right now." Any ideas on what he is thinking? I don't know if I should keep talking to him because I cant seem to get over him. But then if I don't answer his calls I get scared that he'll never call me again and I love him so much. What should I do? I get the vib
2006-09-07 20:33:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't sound like you are being honest with him or with yourself. You love him but you don't know why he is calling you. You see him everytime you come home but he can't handle a long distance relationship. It sounds like that is what you have. All you need to do is decide to have sex with him and you two are a couple. Figure it out. And seven years is nothing this day.
2006-09-07 20:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be coz he still loves u but u 2 cant keep your relationship coz the distance. But i think u r still in love with him. u have broken up because of external reasons not because of something that is inside you. so best way is to be in that way for the time bieng and let time solve the problem. coz both are still in love with other breaking up is not an option. if u cant wait ask him to come near u or just break up, dont answer the phone.
but i know it would be so hard.
so that best way is to keep in touch with him over the phone. some times you 2 will get closer again or get departed as time passes but im very sure that u wont be in this way in future. so that wait and see untill you are sure about what to do.
2006-09-07 21:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by Amila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have this gut feeling that "he's the one", then you shouldn't let this opportunity for reconciliation slip by. If he's been toying with your feelings all these while, then do move one. Engage in other constructive social activities that allow you to meet new people like a new hobby (swimming perhaps?) and the pain will slowly ebb away. Time heals all sorrows. All the best.
2006-09-07 20:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Stinkey S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him as a friend for now. You never know what the future will bring.
Also, don't dwell on the age thing.
2006-09-07 20:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋