2006-09-07 20:09:57 · 21 answers · asked by itsa_me23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That you have a funny nose... and are not an attractive child....even today when I am told that I am so, I find so hard to believe. I even went into crazy relationships because of that...be very careful of what you tell a child, it can mark them for life
2006-09-07 20:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by 40andgoing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never let anyone get you down or see your vulnerable side.
Needless to say I am a very sensitive person but I have issues with allowing people see my vulnerability. I always pretend to be okay, nothing is wrong, etc. If I am upset I have to be left alone until I met my husband .. he is the only one that was able to see that side of me. I am slowly working on it ... especially after the death of my son I have found that I can not control when I cry anymore.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-07 20:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had health problems since I was born-heart problems, ear problems, asthma, cleft palate, etc.-and one day when my mom was angry, she said, "You can't do anything!" which hurt my feelings. The doctors told my mother that, too, which is kind of infuriating. Now I decide what I am good at and what I am not, but it still hurts my feelings, and occasionally my family still says things like that. I mean, if I can survive an open heart surgery at 18 months old, I think that says a lot about my character, right?
2006-09-07 20:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by poeticjustice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That God will punish you for every sin in this life and the next. That had me paranoid for many years.
I had to wake up one day and realize that I'm not a murderer or a rapist, nor am I violent or a horrible person when things started to go really wrong in my life. I had to realize that everyone sins and that bad things that happen are not necessarily payback for anything. It's just life. Bad things happen to everyone - good or bad.
2006-09-07 20:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by Purple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sperm donor father told me he wished that I had been born a boy...made me feel unloved for many years, even though my mother always doted on me.
2006-09-07 20:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by shynomore 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apply your own wisdom and experience now to follow what had been told to you earlier.
2006-09-07 20:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was told I should've been left in foster care...and that it was my fault my dad wants nothing to do with me ,doesn't care about me,and I have no relationship w/ him.
2006-09-07 20:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Direktor 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be good. Believe me to this day I try
2006-09-07 20:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad always said "women are all whores so treat them accordingly, now go get me a beer"
at 6 i didnt know what he meant but i understand now
and i agree
2006-09-07 20:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by niteshipper 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my mother always told me i was the only mistake she ever made in her entire life.
2006-09-07 20:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by jbslass 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋