'coz i'm wondering why sooo many people at my age,20, jump into that thing already!!
2006-09-07 19:48:06 · 20 answers · asked by cutiebum_kaye 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
It's great if your partner is great.
2006-09-07 19:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't always say yes to this. Is sex better than chocolate? HMMmmmm... At your age I was well into the world of sex sometimes it was the greatest thing ever invented other times it was the most boring thing I had to endure, sometimes it was even down right painful.
It is much better with someone you love and trust. When you first start out sex is a little like a baby walking. It knows that it can do it but isn't sure how. So you stumble a bit and it's arkward. Soon after a while and you get your footing it becomes better. You know what to expect and you know a little bit more of what you are doing.
I suggest this book if you are really interested in improving your sex life it called the "Guide to Getting it on" I don't have the authors name but if you want it e-mail me and I'll give it to you. It has a lot of advice and tibits and is handle very maturually. If you are going to jump into as you say, then please be careful make sure you are on some contraceptive and that he wears that rubber. It's more than just pregnancy you have to worry about these days.
Anyway most people are jumping into because someone else has, this is plain stupid. Have sex with someone because that is what you want to do. Many women have regreted jumping into sex, because they felt they weren't ready. You have to make the mature decision and decide when you are ready and who is the right guy to lose your virginity to. I won't counsel you to wait until marriage but I will say that I hope you make sure that it is with a person you trust.
P.S. I still love chocolate, but I also love sex. Hard to pick one against the other for me.
2006-09-07 20:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Attacus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a virgin, I do commend you. People just think that is something that they have to experience to somebody. It isn't. I was a virgin when I married at age 18, and I just was not into it, but that was many years ago. Now, it is like something you want to get rid of, or that if you are into it, you can look down on the others who are not, and put yourself up on a pedestal, as knowing all, etc. It is just stupid, it is a personal thing, and to let someone casually have the most intimate thing as putting their body inside yours, is the most private thing you can do You really do not know where they have been, etc. Stop it, and do not do it, You will feel much better about yourself, if you are married, in love and have a loving, caring relationship, that is the way God wanted it to be. Don't abuse your body, you do not have to do anything you do not want to do. If you feel tainted or dirty, then just say no, sex can be beautiful when the time is right.
2006-09-07 19:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think people should be jumping into sex at 18. of course this is coming from a guy. u cant trust guys when it comes to sex. it will be the best experiences ever if ur partner knows what hes doing. u will love him for life. but if he sucks. u might go lesbian. thats how it sometimes work.
2006-09-07 19:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is fun. It can be great if you have the right partner. I'm 20 also and have been doing the deed since I turned 16...and I don't think I'll ever stop.
2006-09-07 19:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by Artie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's great to know a few women are not drawn into sex by peer pressure. You've waited this long, why not wait for a husband?
It isn't all that great.
2006-09-07 19:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
I cant really tell you whether sex is great or not. For me, sex have to follow my heart and depend on how much i love my partners.
2006-09-07 19:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by Wake up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lost my virginity at 16. but i was in love blah blah blah. sex is just physically an act but it has a lot of psycho stuff attached. just make sure you are sure before you 'jump in'. but yes, it is fun and everyone is different. enjoy:)
2006-09-07 19:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by SivGiger78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 20 and honestly, its not that big a deal to me
its nice but there are things in enjoy more
2006-09-07 19:50:25 · answer #9 · answered by apolloandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good fun but only if you are ready. It can be a big let down if you sleep with someone just to find out what its like.
2006-09-07 19:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's awesome. but it's even better if you're in love...i know it sounds corny, but i have only had sex with one person and we are still together. i would never want to be with anyone else
2006-09-07 19:53:25 · answer #11 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋