My ex boyfriend is in the military and he has herpes, he is still sleeping with other women and possibly passing it on to them, he knows that he has it because he gave it to me and I told him. How can I get in contact with someone in the military and let them know, or is this something I can't do anything about.
2006-09-07 19:24:46 · 6 answers · asked by Ebony_23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why not just go to dontdatehimgirl.com - its a website to tell girls who to avoid. This link was posted last night ..
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2006-09-07 19:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if the girls he is sleeping with are also in the military and in the same unit as he is (or officers while he is enlisted or vice-versa) -- that is a punishable offense.
Who he sleeps with outside the military is not the military's issue -- they have too much to keep track of as it is.
On the other hand, getting the word out around where he is stationed is just free speech, right? I'd take out a bilboard... j/k, talk to a lawyer before doing that!
My sympathies -- jerks like that give us guys all a bad name, and they aren't doing the ladies any favors either as you know.
2006-09-08 02:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mustela Frenata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he screwed a married women then yes it could get him kicked out but other then that there might not be anything that you can do if he was a civilian then after you found out that he gave it to you and then you gave them his name what they would do is contact him and tell him to come and get tested and if he did and they had documented that he had it then they would tell him look you can spread this you need to let your future partners know and then someone came forward and said he gave it to them and he didn't tell them then they could do something about it but even still that is just mainly with aids something that can kill you and he would be charged with knowingly giving someone a deadly std and that is punishable in many states but as far as anything else you can try to go to his commander and let them know and they probably would say something the military is very strick if a women walked in on her husband cheating on her and he was in any postion other then missionary then he gets kicked out and she gets all his benefits come to think of it she gets it anyway but not as much ~~~~Good luck
2006-09-08 02:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by p-nut butter princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call a recruiter that's in your state...find a way for him to tell you where his unit is.... call, and tell one of his superiors.. don't know if he will be discharged.. but things like that are unacceptable in the military
2006-09-08 02:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by MISTYGEE19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that would be classed as a dishonourable discharge and some form of assault...
tell the military!! :D
2006-09-08 02:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discharged? Prob not...it's his sex life and the girls are being dumb enough giving in...so..um...not really the militarys problem. But...maybe I'm wrong.
2006-09-08 02:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋